My bf ,has various dating websites he is still signed up too. He suggests that people are just "friends", I however see it as a way to keep your options open. Could I possibly be seeing this wrong,or do I have a legite reason to worry? Also, I have seen that he still logs into them regularly.
Any advice would be appreciated..thankyou.
2006-12-03 12:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by Ellie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw,we've been together for five months,and I think we've made it clear what our intentions are. We have made it clear it is a monogomous relationship.
2006-12-03 12:54:50 · update #1
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Tell him to delete all those accounts from those date sites. If you and him ever break up, i hope you dont, but he can always get them on again. The thing is, you are right, he's holding on to girls on those sites just in case things dont work out between you and him and that's not fair. Thats not right..that means he's not taking the relationship seriously because why would he have to? He has backup girls if you and him ever call it quits. Thats just what im thinking. I would never put up with that from my husband. Please dont do this to yourself. IF they are friends, they should be your friends too, just like your friends should be his friends. IF they are "friends", you ask him to chat with them then. I hope i didnt hurt you, i know it's a very hard situation to be and i'm sorry. I may not have everything correct because i dont know you or your bf, so if i was out in left field somewhere, im sorry. BUt i do hope i helped a little. :-)
2006-12-03 12:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by ooks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on how long y'all have been together. If its not that long, hes probably keeping his options open. You do have a reason to worry if y'all have been together for awhile. If thats the case, then you need to have a talk with him and have him close his accounts on these sites. If he doesnt want too, then theres your answer.
2006-12-03 20:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont have "friends" that are female. If they do it is because he thinks there may be a change to be more than "friends" one day. Keep them there "just in case", you are gone, the two of you are fighting , or your at work.
Ask any male in your family (Dad, brother, uncle), if there are any females they are "friends" with and keep in contact with , that they dont work with or have some other common interest that they just have as a "buddy"
2006-12-03 20:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very proper to define your intentions ti your boy friend and ask what his itent and wish's are for your relationship. I both agree long term then the dating service are OVER
2006-12-03 20:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by curiousgeorgemonkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is keeping options open, and so should you, if you to are right it will work out and if not " to the left, to the left"
2006-12-03 20:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run like hell. He should close those accounts if he cant then move on. OR you set some up and say they are just to meet friends. What does he think this is!!!!!!!
2006-12-03 20:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by sandiiiiii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still looking! So tell him if he wants to remain your Bf to stop visiting these websites.
I don't believe he will just stop though. Do you?
2006-12-03 20:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should tell him 2 stop
and if u doesn't u should dump him cause he dose not care about u !
Good Luck!
2006-12-03 20:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by dana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked...
If he's doing that kind of stuff, he isn't your boyfriend.
2006-12-03 20:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM IF HE WOULD STOP GOING TO THOSE SITES AND ASK HIM IF HE IS SERIUUS ABOUT U
2006-12-03 20:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋