there is a guy that i like but i dont know how to flirt with how can i flirt with him without being to obvious

Question

there is this guy i like he is my best friend so talking to him is not a problem. But how can i flirt with him without being to obvious? Please help!

Answer 1

flirting is so fun. as a guy if you get playfully flirtatious that is extremely sexy. if he is a witty guy, be a smart alec but without being derogetory. i know you said that you don't want to be too obvious, so don't be real clingy. if you really wanna play with him, slap his butt as you walk by every now and then (don't make it a habit), don't stop to talk, just turn around and smile at him as he looks up, then keep walking. go to the mall or something, together, not to hang out, tell him you need his help picking out a christmas present or something. do this on a weekday. you need to be in a public place where carrying on a conversation is essential. and if you have a problem that you would confide in him about, do not be over dramatic about it. make him chase you in a sense. play hard to get. if you show some interest, don't hang around him a whole lot. if he stops to talk to someone else keep going, tell him you'll meet up with him later but don't make it seem like you're mad at him. keep the ball in his court. guys love what they think they can't have.

Answer 2

Well if he's your best friend then it shouldn't be hard to flirt with him without being obvious. Just start going over to his house more and hanging out with him more then you usually do and do things like going to movies or something that people who are dating usually do.

Answer 3

If he starts off with saying something funny, do a flirty laugh!! Let him know that you have his attention. I had this similar situation happen to me, I was just myself and we talked about something that we both had an interest in. If I knew that he was interested in some certain kind of band, I would talk to him about that. What I do to flirt is do a flirty laugh and stand closer to him. He might have some feelings for you too, but don't appear too needy!! I hope I helped!!! Let me know if this isn't the answer you were looking for!!

Answer 4

i agree with the first answer. dont worry about being obvious. If you dont want him to know, then don't flirt. Flirting without being obvious is like.. not flirting at all!!!! there's low key flirting, which is just less dramatic. Just do little quirky things that you usually do. It just depends on your flirting style. i just dotn understand why your're worried about it being obvious, I mean.. isn;t that the point on flirting?!

Answer 5

If I like someone I talk to them as much as I can but I don't flirt. It usually works over time.

Answer 6

Since you can talk to him tell him that you like him more than a friend. He already knows you and would know that flirting isn't how you are.

Instead of flirting and being coy...TELL him that you like him.

Answer 7

The eyes are the windows of the soul. You talk with your eyes. It is a learned skill. Let your eyes dance. You will eventually get the hang of it. See if you know someone who knows how to flirt with their eyes and get them to teach you.

Answer 8

The POINT of flirting is BEING obvious...! OMG...! More white-out on the screen...? Who let the blonde get hired...?!!! LOL

Answer 9

I say be obvious. Life is too short to beat around the bush. Get to the point and let him know that you dig him.

Answer 10

ok im am the best at this. you have to be confident. look your best at all times. always smile be yourself tho. wen you talk to him look him in the eyes let him know that your interested, but not to intersted. you want to make him feel like hes got to work to get you. slightly brush up against him dont make it obvious, just natural. hell notice it. if you need ne more help just email me id be glad to help you. [e-mail]