Singles & Dating - 26 November 2006

Ok me and my bf went out for only a month.But we were together for a while 5 years ago.We finally patched back when he broke up with his ex in August.We are crazily in love,at least at this moment.He and his ex went out for like 4 years.It's bothering me because 2 yrs ago I met him again and I wanted to be with him.He rejected coz he had this gf.So I gave up coz I didnt wanna steal him from his gf at that time.His ex doesnt like me coz she thinks I tried to steal him.Now she knows that we are together but she still doesnt like me.My bf said she hasnt got over him.We are living in different countries now.Last Friday my bf got really sick and he went to see the doctor.Last night we talked and I found that his ex drove him there and lent him money and,more importantly,she came over to his place.I started to have this headache and heartache...he explained that she accompanied him to buy groceries and sent him home and wanted to make sure hes alright.So she stayed for just a while...

2006-11-26 12:50:21 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa C 1

2006-11-26 12:49:49 · 25 answers · asked by icy 3

do you prefer a girl who is skinny or fat or in between? older or younger? shorter or taller? outgoing or shy? rebal or good girl? why?

sorry lots of questions just currious!

2006-11-26 12:49:44 · 19 answers · asked by Babydoll 2

And I find myself torn between two paths here, one alone and one with her. But I am waiting for HER to choose. And while I'm waiting here, I find myself thinking of things I want to say to her, ways to really express myself, and it hits me that I want to tell her how much I love her and want to be with her. BUT in the same breath, I want to tell her she's being a selfish *****, that her indecision is breeding contempt and resentment in me for her, and that she ought to think twice before she assumes any guy as nice, as caring, as into her as I am is going to come around and WAIT for her to make up her ******* mind, she really is CRAZY! Should I feel bad for even thinking like that? B/c I honestly feel better just writing that down.

2006-11-26 12:49:33 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6

I asked this girl out, second six week, but she said that she didn’t like to go out at the beginning of school. and she was still flirting with me. I sent letters saying if she would go out with me, but she would not write back, and one had my phone number, but she didn’t call. Last week, we were talking a test and we were flirting again, the next day I stop flirting with her, but she was staring at me like she wanted me for about 30 minutes . One of my friends ask her out right in front of me and she said ’’no’’. I really really like this girl, I just can’t get her out of my mind ,Were both 14, and have lot’s of other stuff in common. do I still have a chance with her. Please give me some tips, advice, and any thing that can help me. She’s dated before.

2006-11-26 12:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by jes 3

I really, and i mean really liked this guy and i told my best friend about it and she seemed to understand. four weeks l8er i found out we were moving to another state. She came to my going away party but i noticed she didn't talk to me. She spent the whole time talkin to my crush!!! When we moved, i found out from a friend that she had been flirting with him non stop since i moved, wearing skimpy clothes and evrything. what do i do?

2006-11-26 12:48:38 · 9 answers · asked by Imogen F 2

We'd rather not play video games, watch TV, rent movies, or play board games.

There must be something better to do... And do not say sex!

We're both seventeen.

2006-11-26 12:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke up with my guy coz I culdn't take it anymore.We had a great time over thanks giving.I call him later he don't pick up ,doesnt return the call,friday morning I call again and text later on in the day.still no answer .Let it go till sartuday No call , no text.Sunday Morn on ma way to church I pass by his place and right before I get there I call again and gues what no pick up.When I get there my obvious question is why are you not picking up the phone?His answer:I was tired from my clinicals and work.?
Tell me am paranoid but from Thursday evening culdn't he have picked up the phone for 2 min to tell me he was tired but got my calls?Or was I over reacting?This has not happened once.I feel like everytime we have the best of times that is when he acts this way and it gets to my nerves.

2006-11-26 12:48:02 · 4 answers · asked by just wondering 2

this guy i think is cute just broke up with this girl. he said he did it because he liked someone else.he has been talkin to me and showing off alot(it is easy to tell)alota people tell me he likes me,its been a month,when will he ask me out

2006-11-26 12:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by morganpaige. 1

Dating on the internet

2006-11-26 12:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Benny j 1

I'm 26 and the guy I'm seeing is 20. What do you think?

2006-11-26 12:45:37 · 4 answers · asked by tomnevels 2

omg.
no effence to the guys who are reading this.
ok so why do some guys just like teat girls like a piece of crap?like were some kind of toy that you can use and play with.not all guys are like that but some of them are and i cannot stand those people.like does anyone no why some guys can be so retarded and use girls and screw with there minds and make them think stuff that isnt true and then dump the girl flat on her face?

2006-11-26 12:44:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend always says things like "you WILL walk your dog today" and "you have a responsibility to your dog", and "don't use that tone with me, now i want you to think about what you've done and call me when you're in a better mood"..... is it just me???? or is this very condescending????? he doesnt seem to understand why these things make me feel like a five year old, then gets totally pissed when i respond with something smart a$$ like "yes sir!". how do i get him to understand???

2006-11-26 12:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by susieq 2

Ok, my girlfriend is ready to take it to the next step..or in other words hook up. I really want to too but I am so nervous. We were at the movies and she graped my hand but Iwas too nervous to make a move, and I think now she is getting pissed so what i do and how should I do it?

2006-11-26 12:44:23 · 4 answers · asked by chris 2

when im around him i get annoyed with him and want him to quit touching me and stuff but when hes gone i miss him really bad....does this make any sense? I wanna be okay with him but idk what my deal is.

2006-11-26 12:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1

So yea.

There's this girl I like that goes to my high school. Just this year we informally met..and usually I don't talk to her much due to class schedules. Anywho, my friend knows her pretty good, and he's told her about me...her response was something around the line of "I want to fly solo". I immediately frowned when I heard this from him, yet I thought I might still have a chance.

I'm pretty shy, so a face-to-face conversation might kill me -- next best thing is phone. I have her # from a Drumline directory, so I could call her up anytime.

I don't have much to lose, just pride and confidence. I've been turned down before so I could take another one...but I don't want to keep losing.

2006-11-26 12:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by lifeistolong 1

Was it good? Were you able to finish?

2006-11-26 12:41:27 · 31 answers · asked by voyagerbck 2

look im going out withthis girl for 7 months now but im falling in love with her best friend what do i do i also like my girlfriend im stuck

2006-11-26 12:40:52 · 2 answers · asked by wertyu 1

How long do you allow yourself to "fall on your face" when continually being rejected, and when you want to call it quits?

2006-11-26 12:40:10 · 8 answers · asked by SlothMachine 2

I have asked many girls out in my life but it seems that they don't like the good guy type and seem to go for the bad boy kind. Is it true that good guys finish last as they say

2006-11-26 12:39:00 · 22 answers · asked by heatnix_25 1

Okay I luv him so much. He broke up with me because he said that he was gettin tried of going through this stuff. But he say that he really want to be with me and stuff. He told his friend guy that he luved me and he don't want to break up with me and stuff. But i really don't know what to do. When we was talkin like that he asked me if we where to break up and he wanting to go back with me will I do it. I really need your answerplease help me. Should I give him a call right now or wait until he call. I don't want to go with anyone else at the time.

2006-11-26 12:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this girl out, second six week, but she said that she didn’t like to go out at the beginning of school. but she was still flirting with me. I sent letters saying if she would go out with me, but she would not write back, and one had my phone number, but she didn’t call. Last week, we were talking a test and we were flirting again, the next day I stop flirting with her,and she was staring at me like she wanted me for about 30 minutes . One of my friends ask her out right in front of me and she said ’’no’’. I really really like this girl, I just can’t get her out of my mind ,Were both 14, and have lot’s of other stuff in common. do I still have a chance with her. Please give me some tips, advice, and any thing that can help me. She’s dated before.

2006-11-26 12:37:47 · 7 answers · asked by jes 3

Ok, jewelry and clothing would be too intimate....bath/spa baskets too generic and gift cards are impersonal. We have shared lunches over the past three years but she has remained just elusive enough to present problems with the gifting. Here's the vitals:
she is 30 y/o
divorced 3.5 years
recently out of 3 year relationship (hence the urgency)
has 6 y/o son
rents apartment

Once again, no jewelry, clothing, spa/bath kits or gift cards.
Thanks in advance.

2006-11-26 12:37:17 · 11 answers · asked by Beej 3

Ok this guy....sigh....i love him and he calls me peanut!! is it flattering or is it nasty?? I mean a peanuts shape is kinda like an hour glass.... girls u wil get this shape thing! HELP!!!

2006-11-26 12:36:52 · 20 answers · asked by Becky 1

Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so horny' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?

2006-11-26 12:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl in a sports bra and short shorts, or a girl in a sweatshirt and baggy pants???

Please read my other question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061126172757AAkh0RZ&r=w

2006-11-26 12:35:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 32 and, like many other women, I would like to eventually find Mr. Right. I work in retail, so of course, I meet all sorts of people. However, the guys I meet are usually either unavailable or uninterested. My therapist has suggested that I perhaps try online dating. However, I really don't want to do this. (No offense to those of you who've tried it, but it sort of smacks of desperation to me.) My therapist has also told me that it might be a little harder for me to find a guy in my age bracket or older, because most of them are either married or otherwise taken. And no offense to those of you who like younger guys, but I actually want a guy who's older than I am. What do you guys suggest?

By the way, I've been told that I'm quite attractive, so it's not as if I'm Quasimodo's sister.:)

2006-11-26 12:35:15 · 14 answers · asked by tangerine 7

look im going out withthis girl for 7 months now but im falling in love with her best friend what do i do

2006-11-26 12:35:00 · 10 answers · asked by wertyu 1

well this guy goes to my church andd we both are fully aware that we both like each other.

the problem is its his bday.. and i'm really broke. like really really broke. this guy is pretty important to me, but i'm really broke. sucks doesn't it?

well is there anything that i can get him.. that's thoughtful and not so costy?

he plays the guitar, and likes music in general. hm.. he likes sports but doesn't have one as a favorite. aslkfjdl;asjdfl;asjfdl; i really don't know. someone help!

2006-11-26 12:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most of what i've seen, read, and experienced. is that when they come to usa, they want to experience american culture, and they never think of someone like me "Black hair who looks like aztec indian( from mexico), who is short and is skinny and nothing at all like TALL BLONDE white guys or black strong guys". I'm hispanic too. parents from mexico. Well i don't just do it with japanese girls, now i just stare away from any girl as soon as i see them from far away. i don't even look at them. But i'm not wasting nothing right? cause they may be hating me already. Although i do this, doesn' mean i'm happy, in fact i'm attracted alot to japanese or asian girls, or any hot girl of any race. But i just stare away, because i feel i'm crap according to their definition of HANDSOME. am i wasting anything by avoiding girls?

2006-11-26 12:33:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous