Ok, my girlfriend is ready to take it to the next step..or in other words hook up. I really want to too but I am so nervous. We were at the movies and she graped my hand but Iwas too nervous to make a move, and I think now she is getting pissed so what i do and how should I do it?
2006-11-26 12:44:23 · 4 answers · asked by chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nerves are a real passion killer. The only way you are going to get over your nerves is to take a deep breath and just believe this girl really really likes you. It is obvious she really likes you if she wants to take it to the next level. Lose the nerves or she may think you really are not interested in her. Maybe you could think how you would feel if she showed no response to your advances. Talk to yourself....it is a natural part of life...you will both be experiencing new things, just accept that she likes you. Close your eyes the next time she takes your hand, breathe slowly, in and out, dont think about anything except what her hand is doing, and if your hand feels like reaching out and holding hers then dont think twice, just do it, dont worry what she is going to think, just be natural about your emotions. If you feel like kissing her, then kiss her...you will know by her touch if she wants you to do that. Dont think, just feel, let nature take its course. Just close your eyes and go with the feelings.
2006-11-26 12:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are nervous then you arent ready to go the next step, everyone is always nervous when they are young and in love, just give it time, if she is getting pissy at you for not jumping her, then just tell her that you want to wait, if she is respectful of you then this shouldnt be a problem, if she gets mad then id think about moving on :P
2006-11-26 20:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by adnie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here is what you do this is how you test her to see if she wants you to make the move go in like you are about to kiss her and if she starts to close her eyes its good go for it if not just hug her and then if she seems pissed then kiss her cuz that means she wanted one and you let her down and a kiss would make up for it for sure that is the way i always did it it always worked for me hopefully it will work for you
2006-11-26 20:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by you dont know me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before she thinks you don't like her just tell her about your feelings. It may be hard but it's worth it.
2006-11-26 20:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋