Singles & Dating - 15 November 2006

Well the guy I told I liked, he keeps avoiding the subject but constantly flirts with me. He did b4 I told him, but it's sky-rocketed since! I dont know what to do, do I keep waiting or just move on?!

2006-11-15 19:05:18 · 2 answers · asked by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3

I am a 21 year old female student in LA. I met another woman my age and we're in love. There's one huge issue that is troubling me: my girlfriend doesn't want to be my "girlfriend" in public. She's an aspiring actress and thinks being publicly perceived as a lesbian would harm her career. My girlfriend has said that it is OK for us to tell family members about our relationship (we have, and they all approve), but that in public, we need to be "just friends"--and that from time to time she will have to appear to have a "boyfriend" in order to squelch rumors she is a lesbian.

I am torn. I love my girlfriend and want to be with her. I also want to be honest about who we are. I don't want to put unreasonable demands on her, but as time goes on and our relationship deepens, I am afraid that this will be a secret impossible to keep--and both of us are going to be terribly hurt. My father agrees that being "publicly lesbian" CAN harm her acting career--and I don't want that at all!

2006-11-15 19:03:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 19:03:02 · 18 answers · asked by shivani k 1

My gf of 4 months really likes me and I really like her (We make this clear to each other). The problem is that she tells me her 1 yr older sister doesn't like me...her sister is about the same age as me. Apparently i did some things that she (my gf sister) didn't like (i didn't comment her back on myspace for example, but i thanked her for what she did in person the day before). I am wondering if i should apologize for that, cuz i want her sister to like me...what should i do?

2006-11-15 19:02:54 · 5 answers · asked by eagleds 1

I've been seeing this girl exclusively since the start of the semester and we hung out all summer. She's awesome I really care about her a lot and wanna see us go far. The problem is that she was hanging around my apartment the other day while I was at class and found pics of me and my ex (from last spring we dated for a year). It wasn't sexual or anything but just us hangin out and out on vacation and with my family. There was a couple of us kissing. She told me shes not mad at me and that's "what she gets for snooping around" and says shes ok with it now but I just have the feeling it hurt her to see me with someone else. What should I tell her? Do you think I'm overreacting or could this be a problem in the long term???

2006-11-15 19:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Matt J 1

i feel life has hurt me alot because I'm a hopeless romantic. so I kind of give up on women and concertrate on med school

2006-11-15 19:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by jc_colby2000 2

how old did u lost ur viginity, how old was your partner?

2006-11-15 18:59:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi it's the girl who's in love with the painting guy again. I don't know who remembers me but I have a question. Me and this guy have been talking for almost 3 wekes and nothing has nappend between us. This guy is 26 and I'm 18, we went to a movie and went to a restaurant and it was a lot of fun we see each other about 2 to 3 times a week and I sms him sometimes but nothing is happening and I can't see If he likes me. I saw him saterday in a other girls armes but when he saw me he stood away from her. Later he chatted to me and he called me on sunday. What should I do to make him like me, I'm really really in love with this guy?

2006-11-15 18:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by bianca b 1

2006-11-15 18:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by greenofied 1

I've now been seeing my girl for about seven weeks. We've had a fantastic time so far. I'm seeing her tonight and on the weekend. I'm worried that as I become more of myself (being the knight in shining armour so far) that I can't reassure her that I want to be with her as much. I also worry that I'm losing that loving feeling at times. Am I worrying and analysing too much at this early stage? And is it normal to have these cycles of emotion at this stage?

2006-11-15 18:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by drsauce99 1

I seen to recall a party where there was a blue necktie involved

2006-11-15 18:55:54 · 8 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3

My girlfriend say that she wants to marry me and spend the rest of her life with me. We argue alot and I often try to give her an easy way out of the relationship by telling her things like, we can just be friends, maybe she should find someone that she wouln't have to argue with as much, or she may be able to do better with someone else. She says she loves me, she loved me the first time she saw me, and where bour relationship goes is up to me. Heres the thing, she lives with her ex-boyfriend(he has a girlfriend) and her close friends are guys, she says she can't get along with most females. we have been together for about 2 years. I try to trust that she tells me the truth, but under the circumstance its very difficult. She has alot of good qualities about her and I would like to marry her, but in my gut I have reservations. How deep is a womans love for her man ? Should I take the plundge or run like hell from this relationship ?

2006-11-15 18:55:09 · 10 answers · asked by ausaramenra2000 2

2006-11-15 18:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by Rahul S 1

2006-11-15 18:51:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

and what are you going to wear?

theres a jacuzzi, a dancefloor and a firepit, where will you park yourself

2006-11-15 18:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3

okay so here is the deal...a couple days ago i recieved an e-mail from a girl that was friends with my boyfriend, upset because they had got into a fight...i had recently become really good friends with this other frined of my boyfriend named kelli...i had doubts and suspicion that kelli was tryin to mess around with my man..but upon convincing from my man i put that to the side and agreed to give her a chance...kelli and i became better and better friends and i began to confide in her...i also asked her and my boyfriend as well numerous times if they had ever messed around and always got the same response....back to the e-mail...in the e-mail i recieved were pictures of kelli and my boyfriend messing around.... and i want nothing to do with her now and agreed to work things out with my boyfriend only if she was no longer in the picture...am i wrong for being so pissed and not wanting to forgive her at all?

2006-11-15 18:49:20 · 15 answers · asked by brittany w 1

I started seeing a really nice bloke a few weeks ago. We also email each other during the week and we like to swap erotic messages. I'm a bit of a novice when it come to this but he's really good at it. Can anyone help me with this so I can send him a few messages that are as good as the ones he sends me. You can email me then at dottyhella@yahoo.co.uk.

2006-11-15 18:49:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 18:43:23 · 14 answers · asked by matt o 3

I have been dating the same person for over nine yrs, i am 23 and have never been with any other person except him unitl I cheated. i Think me never dating around and experiencing relationships with other people made me more curious.The other man was 35 and caught me when I was having problems in my life. I know I am fully responsable but in a way he was a missleading. I was with him for about 2 1/2 months. I think I enjoyed the way he made me feel and he was the total opposite of my boyfriend. But in the end I found out he was a really bad person he was involved with lots of heavy things and was ont the person I thought he was. I nevre told my boyfriend, i feel that if he will leave and I would rather just deal with the guilt i feel and how sorry I was for doing it. It has been 8 months since it happened and I have realized that my man is the right one for me, I want to continue of future,get married have kids and just be happy

2006-11-15 18:39:04 · 25 answers · asked by ashloveus 1

how old did u really understand what of s.e.x
is and no i don't mean gender!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-15 18:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Saving yourself...

You may think I'm only talking about sex or physical purity...... But I'm not. There's a lot more you can save for your spouse, if that's what you choose.

Save yourself for the one God has planned for you!

I used to struggle with the idea of saving myself for my husband. I knew it was the right thing to do, but I couldn't help but think I was missing out. I thought just saving my virginity counted and evrything else was ok...boy was I wrong... it would have been only a temporary sacrifice that would have turned into a priceless investment.

sex is a very special and sacred experience between a man and woman who love each other and have committed to each other by marriage.

What if the mindset of a single person was not just "I'll save sex for marriage," but "I'll save myself" for my future spouse?

Saving yourself, means that you save more than just sex. You save other special things like kisses, touches, and "I love you's." It may sound far-fetched or even very old-fashioned, but can you imagine the feeling of joy and love you'd have if you knew that your spouse had not even kissed another person? Ever? Or if the first time he/she ever said, "I love you," it was to you! ( I know what that is like!!!)

~~~Imagine this~~~

your purity is like a piece of wood...when you are emotionaly or sexualy involved in a relationship...your two pieces of wood are super glued together.....you guys break up and you wood is torn from his. some of his chips are still on yours and yours on his....your in a new relationship...now you glue your wood to this persons. The chips from both of your last relationship are still their between the new relationship.. break up tear up...not only did you get some of his chips but you also got some of everyother woman he was with before you.

Imagine the privilege and honor of having a spouse who didn't just save sex for you, but saved absolutely everything! You can take this as far as you choose. Maybe you don't even want to hold another person's hand before you hold the hand of the one who commits to you for life.

I can tell you that if more couples saved everything for each other, many marriage-harming issues would not exist in their relationship. There wouldn't be haunting memories of past sexual encounters. There wouldn't be feelings of jealousy towards those who had physical experiences with someone's husband or wife. There wouldn't be the mindset that says, "Since I've had sex with someone else, what's the harm in doing it with another someone else?" Or, "Since she's had sex with someone else, what does it matter if I do, too?"

If he doesn't have enough respect to say "no" for you...then he doesn't have enough respect towards you!

Perhaps the best part would be the sense of sacredness that saving oneself completely brings to a marriage. She doesn't have to share him with anyone – past, present or future. And neither does he.

Trust me, people don't LEAVE marriages like that. Why would they?

I'm not saying it will be easy. In fact, I imagine it will be extremely difficult. But on your wedding night, when you give yourself to your spouse without bringing someone else's memory with you, you'll probably consider it to be your greatest accomplishment in life.









What does the Bible say?

Along with all other kinds of sexual immorality, sex before marriage premarital sex is repeatedly condemned in Scripture (Acts 15:20; Romans 1:29; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 7:2; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality, because they all involve having sex with someone you are not married to. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations that God approves of!

(Hebrews 13:4)

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.



(Corintians 6: 18-20)

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins people commit are outside their bodies, but those who sin sexually sin against their own bodies. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

2006-11-15 18:36:22 · 17 answers · asked by BreAnna L 1

I would have to say personalty, because money/fame does not matter, but looks are second.

2006-11-15 18:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know, i'm 8.5 but i dont know if thats good for my age. If you want to know my age to answer the question e mail me.

2006-11-15 18:32:29 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 18:27:17 · 18 answers · asked by bass 1

today i just got up and bumped into him in the hallway..i looked kinda sleepy..he asked me if i was sick..i said no..

then i held my face with both hands and said sth. like 'still havent waken up?'( i cant remember it clearly)..

i have feeling for him..but i dont know if his action is just being a nice friend or means sth, romantical ?

is that very common to have physical touch between friends??

2006-11-15 18:22:18 · 4 answers · asked by milk 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating for years, and I feel like he is ready for marriage and is just holding back because he thinks I am not, and I in the past have put out the vibe that I dont want to get married for a long time, but now I really do and think we are ready. How do i give him hints without being blunt about it?

2006-11-15 18:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anne 1

Mine would have do be makeup and perfume!

2006-11-15 18:18:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true that you can sexually please yourself in your sleep that you don't know about, other people maybe nearby tell you what you did but you have no memory or knowledge of what happened. And if it is so what is a person to do about things like that to not be put into a humiliating circumstance one day?

2006-11-15 18:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started college and I met this very attractive guy. He made it clear to me he wants to 'party' with me by writing it on my paper. I gave him my number and he called me twice. We're going to a party with his friends soon. I talked to him two nights in a row at like 3 in the morning, and it was great. He didn't talk to me much today. What should I do? :(

2006-11-15 18:15:18 · 5 answers · asked by Hillary 1

concerning their feelings and confusions about them. If this is true then why do so many of them run, ignore and dumping you? They say that honesty is the best policy so why did I end up alone?

2006-11-15 18:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4