I've been seeing this girl exclusively since the start of the semester and we hung out all summer. She's awesome I really care about her a lot and wanna see us go far. The problem is that she was hanging around my apartment the other day while I was at class and found pics of me and my ex (from last spring we dated for a year). It wasn't sexual or anything but just us hangin out and out on vacation and with my family. There was a couple of us kissing. She told me shes not mad at me and that's "what she gets for snooping around" and says shes ok with it now but I just have the feeling it hurt her to see me with someone else. What should I tell her? Do you think I'm overreacting or could this be a problem in the long term???
2006-11-15 19:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Matt J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just make sure she knows your past history & reassure her she is the only one in your life now & thats the only way you would have it.
2006-11-15 19:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of you should worry about it. He of course hasn't gotten over her thoroughly, so for my area verify with him civilly about it. also do not look aggressive or indignant as a results of the indisputable fact that's probable only as problematic on him. A female friend could not really be a female friend yet a ideal pal too. Make him experience like its an open difficulty and he will finally get over her. So do not experience unhappy about it because it already feels like hes gotten rid of a few stuff which means lots to him that you'll commence off so do not youngster your self. you truthfully are a serious individual to him.
2016-11-24 22:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently went thru the same thing with my current g/f I have told her is she wants to use my computer thats fine but if she finds pics in there of past vacations with the an ex its her own fault for looking
2006-11-15 19:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel like you say you do then its time to get those pictures out of there. Put em on a disc and put them away if you must keep them but it would make someone wonder how serious you are about them if you still have your kissy pics from someone else at your fingertips.
-NmD!
2006-11-15 19:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. I don't see a big problem here.
She's exactly right - serves her right for snooping. You have every right to have those pics on your computer.
Set up a password lock, pal.
2006-11-15 19:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I don't think you need to tell her anything. It's awkward for her, too, and she has admitted snooping around. So she is probably a little embarrased herself.
2006-11-15 19:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ivan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It probably did hurt her but if she says she is fine then I would let it go and not say anything. That is your past and pictures don't mean anything other than memories.
2006-11-15 19:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by kitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you begin new relation,,,you can cancel all of your past...no picture no letter no present etc etc....
if you saw a picture that your girlfriend with ex bf? what would you do? this s empathy....
And,,,if you dont erase all of your past, you will meet again these...
And your gf, if she really like you, she would not think this so much....
Hope to be happy dear...Regards
2006-11-15 20:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about your past , let her feel and you don't care anymore ... And put those photos on cd ( if you want to keep them ) and delete them from your computer ....
2006-11-15 20:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by alina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a big deal.
2006-11-15 19:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋