Dear Everyone,
I have been seeing this person online for the past two mos. We have spoke about everything and anything…For the past couple of weeks, there have been “up’s and down’s” between us.
There was a moment, when I didn’t hear from him for about two days. Suddenly, he was under the impression, that I was out dating other men, he called me that night, and spoke about how he feels of me, and said that he is falling in love with me. I myself felt a deep closeness to him as well. Another moment was, I called him a couple of times and finally he returned his phone call about 13 hrs later. In between, the time – I sent him an email, because I started to have doubts, because he doesn’t have the courtesy to even send an email or text, basically, said that I wasn’t sure of him that is he just ignoring me or what it can be. He read my email, and got upset. We spoke of it, and made up afterwards. Another incidence is, that I said something in a jokingly manner “that when we speak in the middle of the night” – I’m half asleep and don’t quite hear what he says at times. He took that to the heart, and stopped calling me during the night hours, I sent him a message one night, that “I miss speaking with him, love him, and worry for him because he is going through a difficult time”. And he returned my call around 3:45am, we spoke, I did question him, that is he wanting to quit speaking, because their was lots of awkwardness, and he got upset, and asked “is this what I am wanting?” I said NO!!. and ever since, we both have been a little distant.
I sent him an email yesterday, explaining how I felt of him, and explained how these couple of weeks been tough on me. Last night, he called me around 3am and we spoke, it was the first time ever, the he mentioned how his past marriage failed, which we both never opened this topic, but he still says that he is not going to call me in the middle of the nights He always for the past two days tends to call in the middle of the night, but, then apologizes that he has called this late. As I said before it was the first time, he discussed about his past marriage too. He mentioned that he thinks, I am a bit confused, and we should take a step back (meaning, he will only call during 9am-9pm) and no longer later. He doesn’t say “I love you” anymore. I don’t want to lose him, but what is going through his mind? Is this a bad sign??, I don’t understand, that he says that he is not going to call me in the middle of the nights, but still does so….which I want him to continue? But I just want things to back where they were before.
2006-11-08
03:21:37
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Fairytale_girl
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