I found out that my Boyfriend is cheating on me last night and I did what every women would do I know the chicc who told me was telling the truth but see what I can understand is that the chicc knew that I went out with him and was a supposable friend what the **** things that piss me off I broke up with him we still talk we had the best conversation last night of our life but we don’t go out but my question is what should I do about that supposable friend should I still talk to her……………ok my and that guy had been together about a year and a half and she has been with him since August and did not say a word to me……..see the reason I am not mad at his is because we both knew that we were goin to break up soon it was jus who was going to do it and it ended up being me what should I do to that supposable friend should I still be her friend??
2006-11-08 03:00:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heck No! That is not a friend. Dump her and find some real friends! Good Luck and sorry you went through this.
2006-11-08 03:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are better than enemies, so that just by rule of thumb, it is best to be polite with BOTH of your " EX "s.
However, you might want to be a bit careful in the future with issues of TRUST with both of them as well, - the mature thing to do would have been for your boyfriend to have been honest and just said that he was leaving you. It would have been mature for your FRIEND to have then told you that she was going to see your ex. At least then, everyone would know where they stood on the issue. The wishy- washy cheating and lying shows that they are not mature, and not trustworthy. They could both still be friends though, but I would not trust either of them in the future with anything that would affect YOUR life. If they weren't mature enough to tell the truth before, there is no reason to think that they will tell the truth in the future. They will have to EARN your trust, if you even want to bother with that issue at all.
2006-11-08 03:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by cowgurl_bareback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, whether you and your boyfriend were going to break up or not and she liked him either you or him should have ended the relationship first and then she could have talked to you about wanting to date him if she was a true friend. If there were no feelings between you and your boyfriend you would have been ok with her dating him. Since she started seeing him before you broke up that is betrayal and you should break up with her as well at least for now until you get over it.
2006-11-08 03:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be talking to either of them. The reason you had "the best conversation of you life" is because he is trying to get back into the picture. If you are going to forgive the guy then you should forgive the friend. Maybe he told her you 2 were going to break up soon. If my boyfriend cheated on me ( I don't care who with) that would be inexcusable. Of all people, the one who has chosen to love you should learn to keep it in his pants.
2006-11-08 03:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't be talking to the ex-boyfriend at all. He did you wrong so you shouldn't give him any credit for that. Second of all the so call friend isn't a friend. I would confront her on what she did and if it reaches that level, then I would whomp her azz! She didn't have any right to do something like that and she needs to learn her damm lesson! But that's just my advice, hope I helped a little!
2006-11-08 03:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your story would be easier to understand if you used punctuation. Slow down and take a breath!
He is an @ss and she is not a friend. Lose them both. You will feel batter and have more respect for yourself if you see her for who she is and tell her to get lost.
2006-11-08 03:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should loose them both and cut all the drama out of your life. Friends don't do that to each other. As long as they are both in your life you will have problems. DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA! Get rid of it!
2006-11-08 03:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by micah z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 rule of friendship - Friends shouldn't sleep with each others boyfriends. He cheated on you and she betrayed your friendship. How could you trust either one of them at this point?
2006-11-08 03:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by leigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beat her to death with your English/Grammar book. It obviously hasn't seen much use anyway.
2006-11-08 03:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by sir_lag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation...she is NO friend...tell her to stay the **** away from you...
2006-11-08 03:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋