Singles & Dating - 30 October 2006

I've been dating a guy for about three months now. He says he really likes me but sometimes when I call him he won't return my calls for days at a time. When we get together we go out to dinner and I have oral sex with him and he likes it. He's never sexually penetrated me, but he now wants to have anal sex with me, but I won't bend because he's too big.

Lately, he has been very demanding and very abusive to me by slapping, hitting, biting, and beating me when I'm performing oral sex on him and ususally this happens when he's been drinking.

I think I want out of this type of relationship because I'm not getting anything out of it..But, whenever I see him at work, or when he looks me in my eyes or calls me I find it difficult to say no to him.....

He told me that he wants to start treating me better than he has should I believe him? should I give him a chance? or should I just move on?

2006-10-30 12:45:54 · 23 answers · asked by Ebonee 3

2006-10-30 12:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by CaliGirl27 1

If so, in what way?

2006-10-30 12:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by soft 1

So say you have a friend who you have known since you were in kindergarten possibly longer. You get older and one day you realize....hey my buddy's kinda a hottie toddie.... so you go out a few times. You both know your leaning towards dating relationship status and have discussed the matter to a great extent, but decide to just let things hang out for now. And it seems cool, and it's like your cool and I'm cool and things are cool. And you have every reason in the world to want to continue dating this person; pretty much everything in common, families kinda know both of you and have good feelings about each other, friends are the same, but for some reason **** be weird. You get the I'm kissing my brother feelin going on. And altho you always have a super shazamtastic time together ya just get the akward feeling. PROBLEM!!! What are you supposed to do with this? Continue moving into a relationship thang and risk losing a really good friend if things don't work out? or drop the whole show and move back into the comfort zoneio?

2006-10-30 12:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by rrice215 1

I can please her OK but I want to blow her socks off, can any girls out there give me hints on how to surprise her and make her feel really good?

2006-10-30 12:42:46 · 3 answers · asked by Tridda AKA K.B.J.G 2

My girlfriend's ex lied to her, saying her parents were getting a divorce to have an excuse to break-up b/c he wanted to be popular and date the most popular girl in school. Then, he comes crying back to my girlfriend, trying to get her back. Me and my girlfriend have a long distance relationship and we just broke up because of the freakin distance and I guess she just didn't want to get too attached and then never see me. But both our feelings are extremely strong and I CAN'T EVER STOP LOVING HER. We both think we're soulmates. My girlfriend's ex asked her back out and so I confronted him and he goes, "I have to do anything to get her back." :(( :(( :(( He was very mean and rude when we talked and I don't know what to do. I've never been this heartbroken and I know she's the one for me. I'll be here with my arms wide open if she wants to come back to me. My girlfriend told her ex, "I'll have to think abt it." I'm so mad. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-30 12:42:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy who i talk to occasionally in school has been talking to me a lot more lately....he'll like whisper my name in class and when i turn around he laughs and says hi....he also says hi to me in the halls sometimes...is he just goofing around? or does he like me? this might seem stupid to some of you, but please be helpful im really bad at reading guys signals!

2006-10-30 12:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by Ellen 4

yesterday a boy tried to make out with me in study hall. he was a total player and a jerk, and he wouldn't stop. i kicked him in the balls as hard as i could and picked up my backpack and went home. was i too mean? was the boy right? he's into grabbing girl's butts, ya know. but now i'm feeling sorry...kind of.

2006-10-30 12:41:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. My ex has a class with me, i was bitter about are messy break up so i refused to say even 2 words 2 him. I made a pt 2 stay away from him and at 1st we did a lot of smart *** remarks 2 each other. Now 4 some reason he jokes around w/ me and the guy he i was once thought was far from funny is actually making me crack a couple of smiles now! & on some occasions i'll laugh really hard. Now we talk 2 each other on a regular basis in class and it;s not as awkward n e more. He even has asked his friends 2 ask me to call him sometime and c how he's doing. Now this guy has been known to b a playa and our relationship ended cuz i wasn't like his other girls....I wouldn't play his games like them. (i actually ended it) Does my ex seem like he wants me again or is it just that hard to get attitude that's putting him up 4 the challenge?or am i the 1 trippn? or is this JUST da start of a friendship?

2. Somebody give me tips on how to meditate? HOw do you meditate? like...what do u do?

2006-10-30 12:41:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to find some friends who have the same interests that I do and have a hard time making friends. I am shy person,34 white male who is honest,kindhearted, caring,compatible person looking for Christian/baptist raised friends who like bowling,shopping malls,video games,walking,canoeing,card games,movie lover(variety),amusement park/water parks, swimming,reading books,listening to variety of music. I am looking for men or women friends to be around who is in the same situation that I am. I am going through a divorce and looking for a close friend. Please write if your interested in me.

2006-10-30 12:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by mkcarp33 1

GUYS!!! theres this guy that my friend friend likes and i talk to him a lot on MySpace, and well were like best friends on the internet but then when it comes to scholl he ignores me wats going on?

2006-10-30 12:40:46 · 11 answers · asked by nikki<3 2

Okay, here's the deal. I'm a junior in HS and my bf is a senior. we were bf&gf for a couple months during my freshmen year then we broke up b/c i wasn't exactly ready to have a boyfriend. Last year he got a different gf and they went all the way. now we're back together and I just got my first kiss a couple months ago.

The Problem? For some reason, I don't like kissing him. I mean, it's not him, I just don't like kissing at all. I'm 16, shouldn't I like that kind of stuff? It just seems weird when we do kiss, and I just don't like it. WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME??? DANG!

2006-10-30 12:40:37 · 12 answers · asked by Kassie Leann 4

My ex of almost a year broke up with me a month ago. We were very much in love for about 9 months and had a strange, distant last month before it all ended. He said it was largely because we had "different values" and were raised different. I realized it was because he thought I was taking him for granted and made it hard for him to bring this up. I wrote an apology, for which he said he was very grateful for and "needed to hear" but the break up is still on. We agreed to take some time before we start speaking again, so I said I'd contact him in another few weeks. I really want to make this work, but feel like I already did enough and anything more would be throwing myself at him...what do you think? How should I act when we meet up again? What should I do/say/talk about? Do I just try to just "be friends" and hope he sees the person he originally fell in love with? Do we talk about how it all ended? Lunch? Dinner? Friendly game of ping pong? Help!

2006-10-30 12:39:27 · 15 answers · asked by SummerPixie 2

I'm friends with this guy at work, and lately he's been flirting with me more and more, which is cool. He'll be super flirty, then nothing...Doesn't even say goodbye when he leaves when his shift is over. What's the deal?

2006-10-30 12:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by Steph L 4

you can take what you are making from your job and invest in your own business. (This question is for the single guy with no children.)

2006-10-30 12:37:11 · 5 answers · asked by Vick 1

2006-10-30 12:36:39 · 16 answers · asked by lady_di298 1

There are two guys that I like
Guy1:is more relaxed and peacefu lwhen we talk.we hit each other but in a fun way and we talk a lot and we trust each other
Guy 2:the other guy,I've known for way longer.We know each other, we talk to each other.We pass each other to the lockers but we pretend we hate each other.Now, we talk and laugh but we've fallen apart
Both guys are cute and I like them a lot.Guy1 is nice and fun and sweet.Guy2 is cool and nice and we know each other so much better.I really want to try and know guy1 better
Guy2, JUST started hating the girl he's liked for a year,so should i like swoop in and make a move, try and comfort him or should i stick with guy1?i think that guy2 is jealous because i sit in front of gu1 in pe and i think guy2 likes me.he always looks at me and guy1 wistfully when we're talking.But when we get up, guy2 always comes to talk to me and we have fun.But I think Guy1 likes me too
Both guys are friends too! I don't want to get in betweem them

2006-10-30 12:36:06 · 5 answers · asked by chaos causer 5

well weve been seeing each other for about 2 weeks, im married he has a g/f, i have a son, and his g/f has a son, were both unhappy in our relationships, he wants me to move in with him and i want to, but when? he hasnt said a date?

how do i honestly know if he will leave her? i want to leave my husband honestly.
I want honest answers not people being mean because were cheating on our spouses. and yea i already know if hes cheating know hell cheat then,,

anyways answer my questions lol what are the facts about men leaving there g/f's?

2006-10-30 12:35:35 · 10 answers · asked by mariaprichard 1

if he leans in to kiss but backs away quickly what does it mean.could he be playing or wants to kiss you

2006-10-30 12:35:05 · 8 answers · asked by babywanted26 1

Know when it is the right person for you to be with?
How do you know he the one to have sex with?

2006-10-30 12:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's assured me many times that she's not interested in him anymore, but they still talk (and argue) fairly often, and she spends a decent amount of time around him due to involvement in some mutual activities...and they didn't break up that long ago. I'm prob. just being paranoid...but...

2006-10-30 12:33:14 · 15 answers · asked by Matt S 2

well i am dating this guy and i REALLY love him. He says he loves me 2. I believe him! this is long distance though and i need to make sure!

2006-10-30 12:32:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a guy that I like and hes two years older then me, and hes a german exchange student here but hes leaving in one week, I don't know what to do...

2006-10-30 12:32:19 · 21 answers · asked by kristindalhoff 1

Who would you pick and why? (Probably the weirdest question of all day today)

2006-10-30 12:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by RivatricHistrionic 3

Ok i was planning on giving my boyfriend my special gift for his birthday but i dont want to back out and make him mad.....but he said its all up to me and respect that i want to wait.....but i dont want to seem like i cant make up my mind im 15 hes 15 too

2006-10-30 12:31:43 · 15 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1

I have dated the same woman for almost 1.5 years. Off and on for the last year, I have regularly met women that have tempted me to end my ongoing relationship. Is this normal, or is there something wrong with my relationship with my girlfriend?

2006-10-30 12:31:18 · 6 answers · asked by Socrates Jones 1

Theres this guy and when i first met him a friend told him a liked him and hes like o were just friends. Its been like two months and im goin to his party is it possible that he could like me more than friends now because i really like him and is it possible he could ever like me more than friends?

2006-10-30 12:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by Babii Blondee 2

will KFC ever be the same if they go to a healthier menu?

2006-10-30 12:29:47 · 15 answers · asked by Lalalalalala 5

2006-10-30 12:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by iastatebg3324 1

my girlfriends bestfriend likes me. What should i do?

2006-10-30 12:29:08 · 24 answers · asked by Nick 2