She's assured me many times that she's not interested in him anymore, but they still talk (and argue) fairly often, and she spends a decent amount of time around him due to involvement in some mutual activities...and they didn't break up that long ago. I'm prob. just being paranoid...but...
2006-10-30 12:33:14 · 15 answers · asked by Matt S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to trust her. Has she ever given you a reason not to? It is very unusual to spend alot of time with your ex and still not have feelings for he/she. My advice is to trust her until she gives you reason not to.
2006-10-30 12:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by BrandyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should feel concern. Is she initiating all of this contact? I can understand the mutual activities, but she should understand that all of this puts stress on a relationship. It sounds like he is still in her system so look out. If she is truly over him then there wouldn't be close communication like an argument. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-30 12:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my ex girl used to talk all the time after i got with my new girl. well lets just say my new girl put a end to that after my ex tried makeing me leave my new girl at the fangure nail place and now me and her don't talk at all because my new girl was so mad and i love my new girl more than i do my ex. you should wait to see if they are doing something wrong then put your foot down.
2006-10-30 12:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever I would be it sound like she still with and you. And if she is say their no interest there then why are they still talking you need to tell her this is hurting you and that you really need to have it stop and if she really love you and there is nothing going on she will stop talking to him and if not then you know to move on
2006-10-30 12:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paranoid or not, I think you are justified in your concerns. Watch out, you may have gotten her on the rebound and she is missing her ex. Especially if they were together for any length of time. Guard your heart, please.
2006-10-30 12:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still in contact with all of my ex's. She's probably being honest with you. Jealousy can hurt a relationship, be careful.
2006-10-30 12:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately if you fret, your just going to make yourself sick, and make her mad. IF she is doing something, you can't stop it anyway. don't worry about it. sounds like she isn't. most women are like that i think. i wouldn't say anything or worry, or you'll regret it. best thing to do is if you think she really is doing something, move on.
2006-10-30 12:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by kaptain_jack_sparr0w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im having the same problem bruah
2006-10-30 12:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing is going on, don't worry about it. Dont stress.
2006-10-30 12:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very concerned, i mean very very concerned that is not normal.
2006-10-30 12:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋