well weve been seeing each other for about 2 weeks, im married he has a g/f, i have a son, and his g/f has a son, were both unhappy in our relationships, he wants me to move in with him and i want to, but when? he hasnt said a date?
how do i honestly know if he will leave her? i want to leave my husband honestly.
I want honest answers not people being mean because were cheating on our spouses. and yea i already know if hes cheating know hell cheat then,,
anyways answer my questions lol what are the facts about men leaving there g/f's?
2006-10-30 12:35:35 · 10 answers · asked by mariaprichard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most men just play both women and never actually leave-just sting them along for months-even years. I wish you the best. Take care of your son and the rest will fall into place.
2006-10-30 12:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only been seeing this guy for 2 weeks and already you are talking about moving in with him??? Where are your brains? Yeah--I already know where they are.
You don't even know this guy! You can't get to really know anyone in 2 weeks. And yet you are ready to give up your marriage for someone who is almost a stranger?
As everyone has said---if he cheats on his g/f, he will cheat on you, too. This type of man is like that. I have seen it happen over and over, and I have lived one heck of a lot longer than you!
You should tell this guy goodbye, and work on your own marriage. You have a child to think of. He deserves better than a cheating mom. And your husband deserves better than a cheating wife.
2006-10-31 06:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would also love to see lots of people answering this question. It is sooooooooooo much in the society.
I have no disrespect for you rather admire you for your honesty. My feeling is that this man loves you a great deal too (otherwise you would not have loved him this much). I just wish everything works out very well for both of your families/ relationships.
As for men's characteristics, I would say, If a man can fall in love with a women who already has a son who is not his, he is supposed to be quite open to any other new relationships such as that he has with you.
2006-10-30 12:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by S&D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each individual situationh is different, but like you seem to be aware of, if he DOES leave her, most likely, someday he will cheat upon, and leave YOU too!
So you need to ask yourself if you are OK with this, and just want him for a little while, to help bridge the gap between the relationship you want outr of now, and the future one you were meant to be in...or do you hope against hope to be able to keep him forever?
2006-10-30 12:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Howie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a messed up situation. you don't want to hear what is real and what is honest. you already know the answer to this question. by the way two weeks is not long enough to start confusing your son especially if it does not work out.
2006-10-30 12:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by wise1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about a firm date for you to move in. If he keeps stalling, he is not serious about having you move in with him nor leaving his girlfriend.
The men usually don't leave their wives. I don't know for sure about steady girlfriends. (If a man does leave his wife, it's usually due to his already planning to leave her.)
I hope everything works out. We all deserve happiness.
There is something you should remember: Keep a close eye on him. You may not be the only woman he is seeing.
2006-10-30 12:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really didn't ask this question. sometime you women make me laugh. listen sweetie if he is cheating now he will cheat then as you already know, and he is with a gal what makes you think that as soon as he breaks up with her he is gonna go right in to another relationship think about sweetie. anit no telling how that man is gonna react when he realize that he got his freedom back. NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN BUT YOU NEED TO REALIZE THAT YOU ARE JUST A PIECE OF *** TO HIM AND THAT IS IT
2006-10-30 12:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you married? And you have a kid. What would your kid think when he's older?
2006-10-30 12:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by xoaligatoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No comment.... you two belong together.
2006-10-30 12:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by dd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jus talkin it over..
2006-10-30 12:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋