my girlfriends bestfriend likes me. What should i do?
2006-10-30 12:29:08 · 24 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk them both in a threesome.
2006-10-30 12:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything, unless you like the friend back. Don't cheat on your girlfriend, it will never ever turn out the way you want. You'll probably just end up being hated by both of them, don't get between friends like that. It won't be pretty. If you like the friend, maybe you'll have to break up with your gf, if you're not into her, then do nothing at all and enjoy spending time with your lady.
2006-10-30 20:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by shortcake 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain to her that you won't leave your girlfriend or cheat on her, and hope she understands. There's not a lot you can do about someone else liking you, just try and deal with it the best you can, and make sure your girlfriend knows, it'll help avoid any suspicion of you from her.
2006-10-30 20:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by robdob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her best friend that she has to realize her limits as far as her relationship to you. Let her know that you are in love with her friend and that it makes you uncomfortable (if this is the case). Open the lines of communication with her and tell her about how you feel about her liking you. It may hurt her a bit, but it will do a lot of good in the long run for you to open up and express your feelings.
2006-10-30 20:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest. if u really truly like ur girlfriends best friend, you need to come clean with your girl. Yes ur gonna give her heart break but its better than cheating on her. Plus, even if the girl doesn't like you when u do it she wouldn't have liked u anymore if she figured out u liked her best friend. Think about whats best for you.
2006-10-30 20:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Yes.? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have any feelings for your GF at all tell the best friend you aren't interested. If you pursue anything with the friend then you are only causing trouble not only for yourself but for the two women as well.
2006-10-30 20:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should not even think about it that is one of the most disloyal things you could ever do especially if you love your gf dont put your relationship on the line let alone a friendship so my advice for you to tell her is if she cares anything about her buddy then she would lay off and if she dosent then tell your gf before she flips it around(but if you dont care Hell go for it!)
2006-10-30 20:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by onecent1232003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa ok I see big problems in your future. If you respect your girlfriend you wont mess with the best friend. It'll create alot of problems and not just for you.
2006-10-30 20:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Redhothumanity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to look like a loser, than go for the best friend. Obviously shes not much of a best friend to your girl, if she's trying to scam on you.
2006-10-30 20:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello ...you already have a girlfriend ! Just be polite and let the other girl know : NO . You are already taken !
2006-10-30 20:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a best friend. Tell her your in a happy committed relationship and to leave you alone. I would also tell her that you find her behavior inappropriate.
2006-10-30 20:35:40 · answer #11 · answered by Little Nell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋