Okay, here's the deal. I'm a junior in HS and my bf is a senior. we were bf&gf for a couple months during my freshmen year then we broke up b/c i wasn't exactly ready to have a boyfriend. Last year he got a different gf and they went all the way. now we're back together and I just got my first kiss a couple months ago.
The Problem? For some reason, I don't like kissing him. I mean, it's not him, I just don't like kissing at all. I'm 16, shouldn't I like that kind of stuff? It just seems weird when we do kiss, and I just don't like it. WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME??? DANG!
2006-10-30 12:40:37 · 12 answers · asked by Kassie Leann 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are still young and need to be comfortable with that stuff. I love kissing my boyfriend because I love him very much but with some other people it just wasn't the same. Maybe is not a good kisser or hes to sloppy with you. Eventually, maybe it will get better.
2006-10-30 12:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes102786 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It doesn't matter what your age is, when it's right, you'll feel like kissing. maybe he just isn't the right guy for you, or maybe you're just not ready to be kissing any guy.
I never wanted to kiss any guy I went out with because it just didn't feel right. but when I met the guy who's now my husband, all I could think about was kissing him !
give yourself some time, and if you're not enjoying kissing this guy, don't do it.
2006-10-30 20:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just not ready to kiss or be kissed. It's not something you can force yourself to like. With the right guy in the right circumstances, it will all seem easy and natural. You just have to be patient. I'm wondering too whether it is just kissing you don't like or whether you don't like physical affection of any kind.
2006-10-30 20:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is right for you. Maybe he just isn't a good kisser. Its not you. I don't think he's the guy for you because he broke up with you and then got back together. Guys that really like you would NEVER dump you. Believe me!!
2006-10-30 20:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by T. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. I'm 17, and I still haven't been kissed yet (talk about feeling abnormal!)
If you're not ready, don't rush things; if he doesn't respect that, dump him and fast
2006-10-30 21:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun worry hun..its prob jus cuz ur not use to it yet and u probably dun think ur that good at it yet.... my advice is to jus relax and let the kiss flow...dun be scared cuz everyone went through it, jus take ur time and if ur confused jus let the guy lead...
2006-10-30 20:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by blank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with u... maybe u just dont feel comfortable kissing yet and thats ok.
2006-10-30 20:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen the movie "But, I'm a cheerleader."
You should watch it.
This really does remind me of that movie.
2006-10-30 20:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no chemistry between the two of you. you probably think about him with that girl going all the way, and are scared that's what he wants with you, and it probably is.
2006-10-30 20:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you!
you may not enjoy it until its with someone u really like.
youll see what happens.
2006-10-30 20:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋