Singles & Dating - 14 October 2006

i have been kinda hangin out with this guy for awhile now..we have messed around and did some other sexual stuff and we jus spent a whole lot of time together but today hes leaving the state to go sumwher else and i m soo depresed because i got attached to him and REALLY started liking him.whereas i dont think he has that same attachement..and he will proly go ther n play around n meet other girls while i m here feeling so sad n crying..and hes leaving today and i thot he wud cal me to meet him one last time or something but he didnt..i gues he jus had his fun then..and its really tearing me apart that hes leaving...i dont want to tell him my real feelings bcuz i feel embaressed..cuz he dusnt seem to care so why shud i let him knw how i really feel..so how do i handle this...he is leaving today and I am so depresed...TELL ME HOW TO HANDLE THIS..plz...shud i just say bye calmly and let him go....and not look back..n jus forget him...plz tell me how to handle his departure...

2006-10-14 09:59:14 · 20 answers · asked by mani 1

My bf of 2 years lives in Ohio, I'm in South Carolina. More and more he keeps complaining about spending money on plane tickets and gas money to come see me. He says i never appreciate it, but no matter what i do or say its not enough.

I just dont know what to think. Im a college student, i make enough money for food and thats about it. he's already out of school and has a good paying job. I never ask him to buy me anything or let him buy me anything besides the $200 plane ticket once a month.

The last time we fought about this, i told him i didnt want him to come see me anymore until i could pay for the tickets. That means we'll get to see each other once every 3 months. But, is that what has to happen? I want to see him, but im tired of him complaining. what can i do?

2006-10-14 09:58:56 · 12 answers · asked by Freaked out 3

pls don't wannt to invest money.

2006-10-14 09:56:08 · 13 answers · asked by petito10 1

My boyfriend of 7 months, is nothing but good to me and would never hurt me, this I know. He tells me he loves me but I feel it's more of a friend love than partner love, just the way he has been acting latley, I have a sick feeling he is falling out of love with me. For example, he seems to have lost interest in sex, he plays his xbox 360 like a madman after work, never comes to bed with me anymore, never seems to want to talk to me, i dunno, maybe I am being paranoid, but something has changed with him and im worried. I ask him what's wrong but he says nothing, he has been working tons latley, so have I, but is this any reason to shove me in the corner?...Does anyone have any suggestions/advice, thanks in advance

2006-10-14 09:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Home alone tonight and I'm feeling a little flirty!
"So what do you do, where you from, and what do you like doing for fun?"

2006-10-14 09:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I now of a webiste that is offering you the chance to see if your loved one or celebrity loved ones are a Perfect match. total score is a percentage of 100, obviously. Now I have searched this site and want to know if I should continue with my search for a this elusive party member or just go about things in the "normal" fashion. i think that I should go for it and my gut feelings say that its possible but so far no one has decided to help me, have put my quest on 360 and on spaces (msn) but so far no takers. Need some help, my current situation is just not working and I need to re-create as a matter of life and death. Not just emphasising. He would obviously be rich, can anyone out there help me, view my page on 360/msmessam or 360/dawnmessam or what do you think@spaces.

2006-10-14 09:53:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 09:53:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like girl?
im a guy who likes this gurl but her parents are divorced and she is a year younger than me it was a movie night at my church when suddenly she decided to sit next to me so she did and when she sat down her hand rested on mine i was startled and jerked it away also i got sum popcorn from the snack stand and offered her some she accepted a couple. i don't kno wat i should do should i tell her i like her should i flirt more also her twin bro is my frend so is this an awkward position i think it is. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

also my parents don't let me date wwhatttt do i dooooo???
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2006-10-14 09:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by pistoluser 3

I have been with this guy for a couple of months everything was perfect, it moved kinda fast and we moved into togther right away. One night 3 months ago some guys robbed our house and to make a long story short he got shot. I was by his side the whole time in the hospital and still am. Ever since the hospital he has been acting different. I had to move out bc we didnt think it was safe for me and my son to live there with the guys not caught. He doesnt want to move back in with me bc he thinks my son is too much for him right now, we dont talk everyday, he doesnt show me any affection, and i found out his friends told him they are mad at him for not calling them or hanging out with them anymore. Even though i never said he couldnt. He stills says he wants to be with me and still says he cares but i just dont know. I moved here from NY and ive been wanting to go back, all my friends are there but ever since i met him hes what is keeping me here. PLEASE HELP!!! What should i do?

2006-10-14 09:49:47 · 28 answers · asked by mmmkjd 1

2006-10-14 09:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Widget 1

I really like this guy and we talked all the time and hang out as much as we can, with him playing travel soccer and me cheering and playing soccer. I refuse to make the first move though, and I think he thinks he can't because im going to hoemcoming with his best friend, but strictly as just friends. How can I get him to make the first move.

2006-10-14 09:48:40 · 3 answers · asked by swthrt4eva91 1

I have a really nice boyfriend, I have been dating him for a year and a month, and we have been living together for three months. But there are a few problems, he thinks we are already married and that I am his house wife. He never helps with laundry, dishes, cleaning the apartment, taking care of the cat, or anything to make it easier on me. I work all day just as well as him and he thinks I have to do everything. On my days off of work, I do laundry and chores... on his days off, he goes hunting. I have told him once already that I am not his house wife and that he needs to help around the house. It was ineffective. What should I, what can I, do to get him to help me? He got mad at me when I bought a purse with a matching walet. But he thinks its ok for him to buy a fishing rod for $250. My stuff was $50 put together. And he asked me to buy him a pop-up blind for deer hunting, so I did. I asked for a new phone (cheaper) and he said no. Is he selfish or am I? Am I asking too much??

2006-10-14 09:47:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 09:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by snuggle 1

I was more than a dream for her,, I did all thingies can make her happy, I was for her only .... but she never believe that... I stell remember her even she was so bad to me ... what I can do for that ?

2006-10-14 09:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by waled almaz 1

My ex-boyfriend andrew dumped me 2 months ago and i still like him. what do i do?

2006-10-14 09:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by heytheredelisle 3

For example, I'm 5'4", 145 lbs. and asian. When I was in high school, I didn't date much because all the guys I knew liked tall, thin, big-chested blondes. I'm happily engaged now, but it's still fun to know how many of you guys are attracted to a look other than the sterotypical "all-American cheerleader."

2006-10-14 09:44:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 09:43:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think they go for girls who can talk and laugh and make jokes..this is my personal experience, I only dealt with boys who aren't afraid to talk to any girl no matter what..they have courage to talk to them without enbarrassing themselves..so it happens but very little in this world..what do u guys think?

2006-10-14 09:43:01 · 6 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3

I am a 34 year old woman who is attracted to younger men; I'm talking 18-27 year olds! I feel ashamed of myself because of this; men my age are dull and boring whereas I feel young when around these guys; I am a kid at heart; perhaps it's because living in a dysfunctional household robbed me of my youth so I weren't able to do "fun, youthful things like going out on dates, liking video games and such."

It's so crazy!

2006-10-14 09:42:49 · 3 answers · asked by Dovegrl357 2

Ok i met this guy on a game its called "club penguin" and i don't recommend it its a very stupid game but anyway i felt a connection between me and him the first 2 month's of talking to him, i felt soooo much of a connection i gave him my email address and we talked and talked, he said he was in a video with simple plan and at first i didn't believe him but then he gave me the link to that video and then i believed him and then he asked for my pic i didn't give it to him but this is soooo dangerous what if this guy is a bad person seeking girls like me to hurt or kill and he already knows my last name and my first and i'm sooo scared i don't want to get hurt and i showed him my sister's pic and she's older than me and now my sister is in danger so i wish i never met this guy!!!! What should i do?

2006-10-14 09:42:30 · 2 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2

Just started a new job couple of weeks ago and there's this girl i really like. I've spoken to her several times already even though we are always busy at work but we walk past each other at least '50' times a day. if we smile at each other for 10 how do I make the next 40 not seem awkward. Plz help!

2006-10-14 09:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by abcde_s 2

What is the best romantic match for a Cancer sign? Capricorn, Leo, etc, what is it?

2006-10-14 09:40:29 · 8 answers · asked by CreativeGEEK 2

ok i wrote my bf a note in school telling him my feelings for him that i cared bout him and i thought i was falling for him and that i hope he felt the same way then he wrote write back saying that he thought we should just be friends because he doesnt feel a bf gf relationship with me.. i honestly dont think that thats the real reason because we were very close he called my mom mom and my step dad dad and always played with my little brother. He always came to my house. So whats wrong? did i do something?? i still love him. he told my friend that he thought he was falling for me but was too scared to tell me because he didnt think i felt the same way and that he didnt want me to freak out. so i told him how i felt and he was the one who broke up with me?? whats going on

2006-10-14 09:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by Marrissa 1

There is a guy i have been going out with for a month now.. and on our dates hes a gentleman paying for everything conversation has been great..and we have kissed. but in public (school) he can't seem to come up with something to say, though he has no problem with public affection. what should i do?

2006-10-14 09:39:43 · 2 answers · asked by DancingLiving 1

Plz Elaborate.

2006-10-14 09:39:38 · 6 answers · asked by sexy alli 1

so there is this guy that i like but he has a girlfriend. last night i went to a small get-together with a couple of friends and he was there and he got a little tipsy BUT he said he knew wha the was doing while he was hitting on me... so to make a very long story short we ended up sleeping together. He kept asking me before if i was sure i wouldnt regret it ... he was so sweet about it and after we just lay there together cuddling for hours (literally) talking about the most wonderfully random things... but this morning when i left to go to work at 8 he was still sleeping but he called as soon as he woke up and by the way he is acting and the way he talks about her i KNOW he wants to break up with his girlfriend but they've been dating for over 2 years (being 17 thats a long time..) and he doesnt know how to break it to her... and ideas? *sorry its so long*

2006-10-14 09:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by SiLLYsTRiNg4499 2

2006-10-14 09:38:26 · 4 answers · asked by snuggle 1

2006-10-14 09:36:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this guy and i know he likes me He gives me a ride home everyday and this is about the only time i get to see him except at home football games and on this thing on sundays ..anyway he cant give me a ride anymore cuz he had to sell his SUV and had to get a truck with only 2 seats and his parents make him give his brother a ride..so now i probably wont to get hardly ever see him! i just found out that he likes me but now we wont get to see each and if we dont see each other he might lose interest what do i do?

2006-10-14 09:34:32 · 12 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2

I really like this guy, and people have told me he lieks me but then again i have doubts.

I'm going to homecoming with one of his really good firends, who lieks me but i don't like him, because he asked me to hoemcoming first and then whe guy i liek asked and i had to say no.

And i don't kno i fi should belive all the bad things his friend says about him.. or is his friend just telling me lies so i won't like him.

2006-10-14 09:33:11 · 19 answers · asked by swthrt4eva91 1