Singles & Dating - 11 October 2006

I keep hearing this from every girl I talk to. My ex girlfriend was molested at a young age, two of my best friends (girls) were raped at young ages, but before they told me, I'm talking about my past and all sorts of things. Right when I ask them what they were about to tell me, they always walk away , then after pestering them a little bit , they blurt it out so that only i can hear it and then I just stand there looking dumb. What the heck is up with that?

2006-10-11 15:35:40 · 13 answers · asked by Chris G 1

I've been friends with this guy for over a year. It started out purely as a great friendship but we've steadily become closer, especially the last 2 months. I've liked him for a while now, but the friendship is so great, I definitely don't want to ruin it if he doesn't feel the same way (and if he doesn't, his knowing will definitely ruin things). I have never pushed things, each time we got closer, it was by his taking it to the next level and doing things that seemed to show interest. So I don't mind being patient to see where this goes, but it would be great to know if our relationship is leaning more toward romance or staying close friends. Some days I'm dead sure he's interested, and other days are just great friendship days but disappointing that he didn't specifically show any attraction. Just leveling with him isn't an option (for now), so what are the signs he's just my friend versus the signs he's building toward romance?

2006-10-11 15:35:39 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica 3

I've been dating my (first) girlfriend for a little over a month now, but prior to us making things official I was pursuing her for 6 months- during that time she always agreed to hangout whenever I called. I'm not sure whether she's being really cautious, me being her friend boyfriend as well, or if she just isn't interested. The reason I say this is because I am usually the one to intitate most things, even as a couple. Where I'm confused is that when we're out she'll hold my hand while were walking, if I'm not the one to hold her hand first, and she'll say things like "we should do this...or go here sometime..." So it seems like she's saying/doing things to show me that she wants it, but it seems like I'm the one putting more effort into the relationship. After a 7-8 month period, is it still possible that she doesn't know what her feelings are for me? Do girls really take this long to figure out their feelings? What's going on?

2006-10-11 15:33:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i MEAN REALLY.. IF YOU LOVED HER...GIVE ME YOUR HONEST OPINION!!!...

2006-10-11 15:32:10 · 9 answers · asked by honey_coated_love 2

I'm gay and live in tampa florida im 22 years old

2006-10-11 15:30:52 · 15 answers · asked by Pete 1

2006-10-11 15:29:47 · 13 answers · asked by pillabrut 2

I met this guy on Saturday, he asked for my number, I gave it to him. It's Wednesday now and he still hasn't called yet. I don't get it, cuz it seemed like he really liked me. He cuddled me, offered me his jacket and asked for my number, I thought those were pretty strong signals. We were all out in a group by the way.

What do you think? Does he like me and will he call? Guys, if you liked a girl how long would you wait to call her?

2006-10-11 15:28:29 · 29 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

Boysssss what is wrong with u?? I was kind of mad at my bf about 2 days ago I didn’t want to talk to him because he didn’t do something that I ask him, I know that was paddy I should get mad, anyway he didn’t talk to me that night even didn’t call and the next day I seen him at work and I forget I was mad at him I start talking to him I was all on him, and he start pulling away he didn’t want to kiss me or anything so I assume he was mad so I called him like twice he didn’t answer me I left a message he didn’t bather to call me back it’s been two days, what should I do, pulse I might see him at work tomorrow I miss him so much but he is been so dam ignoring me

2006-10-11 15:27:59 · 3 answers · asked by sweet84 1

2006-10-11 15:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 15 year old cousin has a boyfriend before i do..it really depresses me. im almost 18. i dont know why it bothers me so much. what can i do to feel better? :(

2006-10-11 15:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I brokeup and then he went back out with his other ex and there both in my Math class and so when he was daiting her he gave me this movie star look like I like her but I still love u more. And when I was dancing with my friend in Math class who's a guy my ex gave him and I a sad look. Whats up? He dumped me I didn't dump him.

2006-10-11 15:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

I went on a date with a guy this past weekend and I thought we had a good time. It seemed like we really hit it off and liked each other. Well today is the third day and he still hasn't called me. So I invited him to be a friend on myspace. I thought if he was nervous about calling me or wasn't sure I liked him that would be an easy way to send the message. Well he has logged onto mysapce but didn't add me as a friend. What does this mean?

2006-10-11 15:25:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 15:24:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this kid, he is my friend and he has been for a while now. recently on myspace, i filled out this thingy for fun about him about all the things that iw ould do with him. one was to be friends with benifits and i put yes. now, he says that we should and i agreed and now he wants me to go to the mvies with him and make out the whole time. what should i do? should i go to the movies with him?

2006-10-11 15:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine and my girlfriend's one year anniversary is coming in a few months, and I have no idea what to do for it. I'd love for some ideas on places to take her, etc.

2006-10-11 15:21:21 · 9 answers · asked by hinzie19 2

For days I have been obsessing over this one girl, and today i finally worked up the courage to go talk to her. Homecoming is coming up in 3 days so I thought i should ask her soon. I was talking to her and I asked if anyone had asked her to homecoming yet. and she told me no. then we said our goodbyes and i thought it went pretty well. even though i chickened out and didnt ask her to the dance. After that she told the whole girls team. by the way im on cross country. well my friend, he is a guy told me what they said and she said she didnt want to go with me, so my friend asked her why she doesnt want to go with me, and she said because she isnt sure. Ive tried my hardest to impress her. I dont know if it is working or not. either way im just not sure if i should ask her, and ive got very little time left. Can you help me????

2006-10-11 15:18:06 · 19 answers · asked by The Last Spartan 2

Realistic

2006-10-11 15:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey, I'm 6'2'' 220lbs and brown hair and eyes. im a Senior in Highschool and i play basketball and golf. Im pretty prepppy kid whjen it comes to clothes. I was wondering if that was a kind of guy girls were interesed in. Thanks

2006-10-11 15:16:02 · 15 answers · asked by stag89 2

And now he wants me back & then he doesn't know what he wants from me.... so confused....

2006-10-11 15:14:31 · 14 answers · asked by kicius85 1

a funeral wake! seriously, before you get all weirded out, think of the setting...a nice low/medium lighted area, QUIET, and you can easily step aside and corner someone you've had your eye on for some time into a secluded area. so much better than a cheesy, loud niteclub full of fake people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-11 15:14:10 · 13 answers · asked by [ΦΘΚ] PIяATE 4

Is it ok if two people have a platonic relationship, and they play "footsie" together - as in putting their feet together, touching soles to soles, barefoot? Do girls normally do this with other girls without it meaning anything?

2006-10-11 15:12:52 · 4 answers · asked by sports3430 1

At least five ways if not more

2006-10-11 15:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How come sometimes boys ask other girls to ask who they like out and they can't ask them out themselves???

2006-10-11 15:11:43 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Brown_Eyed_Sweetie♥ 2

2006-10-11 15:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by Thadd1us 2

I just ened a relationship I was in about 3 months ago, because the guy I was with really did something that broke my heart, so I broke up with him. It's been a hard process, trying to get over my ex that is I still love him very much but don't see us getting back together anytime soon. But my problem is lately I've been having other guy's interested in me but I'm not ready to let anyone close to me right now. I'm not ready to let myself love anybody or let anyone fall in love with me. I just want to focus on getting myself together mentally, and emotionally. Don't get me wrong I am polite about not wanting to date anyone, But I can't help but feel like my ex-boyfriend kinda messed it up for any man that comes after him. Because I'm no where near as sweet as I use to be, I'm not a b*tch but I keep people especially men at arms length. Does this make me bitter?

2006-10-11 15:10:10 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2

there is this girl at school that likes me but i don't how to ask her out?

2006-10-11 15:08:40 · 21 answers · asked by William B 1

I mean, besides breaking up.

Seriously, tell me what you think gives you the best feeling from a relationship. Sex? Having someone? Cuddling by the fireplace?

Ahem. Manhood is still there. Phew.

2006-10-11 15:07:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. He's the only one I've ever been with. When I am angry with him I have no idea what is making me stay with him. But when things are okay, I feel like I'm so much in love with him. Is this only because he's my first?

2006-10-11 15:07:31 · 4 answers · asked by morgan 2

I went with this guy, but ended up dumping him within the next week of our relationship, because I thought that he had something going on with this other girl. He is a senior and I am a junior in highschool. I liked him more that any other guy. I found out that he did not have anything going on with her, and now I am realy sad because I lost the guy of my dreams. He is still mad. It has been three weeks since I dumped him, and I am waiting for him to go back with me. He now goes out with the girl he went with before me. I see them together all the time. She is always happy. I am always crying because I want him back. I never had sex with him, but she did, and most of the time, a guy don't want you anymore after they had you. My question is, will he ever forgive me and go back with me? His birthday is coming up. I am going to give him a present because he gave me one when we went together.

2006-10-11 15:05:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i like this kid. i used to like him in january. then my friend asked him out and it was heartbreaking. but she didn't know i liked him till after she broke up with him. but that was my fault. anyway i stopped liking him. and now i like him again. and we really are colse now. and at this dance he was all up on me. and ppl said we would make the cutest couple too. then today was a feild trip to go see this one play or w.e. and my friend sat next to him and i sat next to her. so after the play i was joking around and i was like omg it looked like you had a pregnancy test in there and he was like yea she pregnant with me. i was like wtf? then on the bus back to school he sat in between me and my friend and he was looking through her phone pictures and was like damn thats hot and it made me feel really uncomfortable. i felt weird sitting there
and now im getting a feeling that i don't want to like him anymore but i still do

am i wasteing my time liking him or should i wait?

2006-10-11 15:04:50 · 14 answers · asked by iloveyou 1