there is this kid, he is my friend and he has been for a while now. recently on myspace, i filled out this thingy for fun about him about all the things that iw ould do with him. one was to be friends with benifits and i put yes. now, he says that we should and i agreed and now he wants me to go to the mvies with him and make out the whole time. what should i do? should i go to the movies with him?
2006-10-11 15:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really in your heart just want to be friends and give him some play? Where's the benefit? Does it bode with your moral compass? Love yourself first gf.
2006-10-11 15:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by 35 and loving it! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not if your not ready. When your a friend with benefits in simple terms youre just a booty call(jump off)Make sure that this is what you want from this guy or maybe you should be honest . Tell the guy you filled out the info on my space for fun. You had time to be honest when he asked you but instead you took the game further. Now he is going to think that you are a tease if you dont make out with him. I am sure you still want to be friends just tell him you thought about it and you dont want to ruin the friendship.
2006-10-11 15:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....think about it. Do you want to. It could really ruin your friendship if things go further, but it will probably be fun and if you are really god friends it will probably turn out for the best. You wouldn't have said yes on that thing you filled out if you didn't want to. Am I right?
2006-10-11 15:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pals with benifits could be a competent sexual launch for the two events. only only be advantageous you the two understand that its all its going to be. for me, i tend to stray far off from that form of element as a results of fact very practically continually one or the different develops emotions for the different individual, which ends up in harm. yet, as long as you adult adult males dont develope emotions for one yet another then it may very well be high quality... and this form of 'friendship' shouldnt final if one or the different ought to acquire a bf/gf...
2016-12-08 13:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that that would be very immature of you.sex is for people in love not to just do..what if you got a STD what if he date raped you???my grandma always said..why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free..if you have sex with him why does he need anything else from you??by this I mean if you are considering this then you must have some feelings for him if you give him sex what will there be left after that??you can't just have sex then be buddies it will become awkward
2006-10-11 15:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys? I see nothing wrong with being friends with benefits, just don't do anything before you are ready.
2006-10-11 15:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you not at the movies now? You want it so go get it!
2006-10-11 15:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by devilinme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you, if u really like him or w.e, but just think if things dont work out are u still going to be friends with him
2006-10-11 15:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't mind being used? That is what "friends with benefits" means.
2006-10-11 15:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try it, i mean, why not? If it turns out to be a mistake, just say it ain't gonna work
2006-10-11 15:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by sicnarfj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋