So,I'm 45 and she's 27.I'm divorced w/ 2 kids.She has never been married. We have dated for 1.5 years. She wanted to be fully integrated into my life, but I was spooked after my divorce. I didn't string her along.Just wanted to make sure before she met the family, etc. So I am so ready to be with this woman and she then tells me that she loves me, but she needs her space and time with no contact. She wrote me that she appreciates my acknowledgement of her need and that she is pretty strict in her convictions about this. She says she just feels she needs this time. She also wrote and said she wasn't sure she could answer the question about there being a chance for us. We talked last Saturday for 4 hours which was the beginning point of this whole mess. I am trying to stay busy, but this whole thing is torture. I want to honor her wish for no contact during this period, but how long am I supposed to do that. I truly believe in my gut that this is the girl of my future. Help me with this
2006-10-10
15:00:35
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