2006-10-10 14:53:35 · 30 answers · asked by deziray23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say yes, but that does not mean that it is okay for everyone. I really think that if you have the beliefs that you should not engage in that activity till you are married that is good. You need to make up your own mind and do what is best for you. Do not let people on this site tell you how you live, do what you think is best for yourself.
2006-10-10 14:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all a matter of opinion. Personally I feel that it's not okay, due to religious preferences. Sex is a sacred thing- it's best not to waste it on someone that ur not going 2 spend the rest of ur life with. If u do choose pre-marital sex, at least be smart about it and use protection. Blessings!
2006-10-10 14:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no because you are not just sleeping with him,you are also sleeping with the previous girls he slept with. Let me explain a man has memories of things that he enjoyed sexually from each girl he slept with. so he will think OK she don't do this as well as this girl but she is way better at this than so and so. so you are in constant competition with the others weather you know it or not.
second no contraceptive is 100 percent my wife and i was playing it safe,she wasn't supposed to be able to get pregnant medically and i was wearing a condom and our son was still conceived. if you think you can handle a baby have someone with a baby stay at your place a few nights and take care of it. meaning the feedings and everything.it is very difficult and it ends your hanging with Friends.
lastly it really should be saved for your wedding night,both my wife and i wished we waited for each other,it would have been more special. once you loose your virginity you don't get it back .
you are old enough to make your own decision's,but at least consider what i have said. i speak with experience and wisdom.most of the people that answered are probably your age and don't know,or have the experiences i have
2006-10-10 15:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by cuervo25_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different. Without knowing how old you are (I am assuming that you are of legal age), it is difficult for me or anyone else to tell you what to do. A lot of religious teachings will tell you that you should wait but I think it's okay if you are in a stable, committed relationship. It will be really special if you are in love. I waited until I THOUGHT I was in love and have had a couple of relationships since... all of which I kind of regret now because I wish that I could have waited 'til I met my husband - when I KNEW I was in love. I am not a regular church goer or anything but it would have been nice to be able to give him something that I had never given anybody else.
2006-10-10 15:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this depend if the person you may have sex with is inpotant to you, don't just go and have sex with just anyone, but if you have known this person for quite some time and you both know that you are safe, then i say why not, Just remember your feeling will let you know what is right, Have a wonderful Evening!!
2006-10-10 15:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your religion and beliefs. But better not. Save the best for your future husband. There are many consequences so better avoid this. Just enjoy life without sex until you're married. You can have plenty of it during your marriage. Don't hurry.
2006-10-10 15:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by sheilahgarcia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yes but how PRE-marital are we talking? Are you old enough to legally have sex and not get your beau locked up? Or yourself pregnant? Be old enough, be careful and have fun.
2006-10-10 14:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say no, Men are hypocrites. They have dozens of terrible names condemning women for sleeping around with many men, but they feel that they must sleep around to prove their real men. They prove they are studs. Can you see the hypocrisy?
I feel you must make men respect women more than they do.
You can't have it both ways, call women tramps, and then turn around and base your ego on how many women you have had sex with. Men are like Dogs, they all pee on the same bush. The truth hurts, but tough cheese.
2006-10-10 15:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got engaged, and we were talking about Marriage, and I was so $hit sure that we were going to get Married, but he backed out, and I'm glad that he wasn't the right one for me, but unfortunately I did give it up to him, and I regret it there.
I was so sure we were going to get Married, and even to the last month of our relationship, he wanted to get Married.
Not even a month later.. he was seeing other ppl.
It's your call what you do..if you love this person, then by all means, do what you want to do, nobody can make that decision but yourself.
Personally.. I regret it.
2006-10-10 15:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
according to the bible its not, but i have had pre-marital sex. it all depends on what you believe in, and what you feel is right.
2006-10-10 14:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋