Do you think he finds me attractive since he trys to sneak a peek?

Question

This guy I've known for almost a year now. We're just work acquaintances. I had a big crush on he but it has finally subsided. He has flirted with me before. And whenever I tried to get close he backed away. And the cycle then would start all over again. But lately since my crush on him has subsided I don't acknowledge him quite as much. But lately a few times I've caught him trying to glance at my chest. I do sometimes wear things that are a little low cut. of course not to bad I'm at work. I guess you could say I'm a decent size. Not flat, not big, just average, maybe a litte above with the push up bras. Months ago I did catch him checking me out. But then I didn't notice it I just noticed him looking into my eyes and down at my lips. But now he's been lately doing this. It is discreetly done though. If a guy knows a girl this long and does this. Do you think he at least thinks she cute in the face? Or does it matter. Because lately he'll glance there first.

Answer 1

As a "guy" --- ALL guys will try to sneak a peek whenever thay can! You provide the opportunity and we will take advantage. It's not your fault! It's not ours either. It's human nature.

However, I highly recommend that people who work together should not date. This provides for problems, none of which are healthy in the work place.

But, to answer your 1st question, Yes. he is attracted to you.

IMHO,

The Ol' Sasquatch Ü

Answer 2

It probably just means he wants a peek. A lot of guys naturally look in that area without even realizing it.

It really doesn't sound like he is into you, though, I am sorry to say. But really, he does not sound like all that much of a catch. A decent guy would have returned your affections if he liked you, too, rather than making you wonder.

He probably is only trying to flirt with you a bit b/c you aren't paying attention to him as much. This is just to satiate his ego. Don't give into it. Just continue to go about your business and find someone else who will like you for you, not your chest.

Answer 3

Why do you care ? You said your feelings have subsided for the guy .. do you still want him ? Or you just want to know if you should be annoyed with him or not for sneaking a peek without wanting you ?? Good Luck ! :)

Answer 4

The loss of a key will result in a 20 dollar charge to your account.

Answer 5

It sounds like he is lusting after you. He could like you and maybe even love you in time. He needs to fully respect you all the time not be attracted to your body disrespectfully.

Physical attraction is good and fun and loving though, maybe he could grow up with help from you and others.

If he remains about lust then he sees you as sexy, sultry and "hot" not pretty or beautiful per se.

Good luck.
Take care.

Peter

Answer 6

Some guys just naturally like to look at women, u might want to see if he looks at any other women that u know if not u could always try to peak his interest if u know what i mean. :)
(Show a little more skin, just nothing too inappropriate)

Answer 7

If a guy gets a shot of good looking cleavage, he's going to look. I wouldn't read too much into it. It's our instinct.

It certainly doesn't mean he's NOT interested, but don't fall into the trap of thinking that just because you have cleavage he will want to date you.

Answer 8

Guys check women out all the time. I wouldn't make too much of it unless he is doing something else too.

Answer 9

It could just be that he likes to look at your cleavage and nothing more. Guys can be pretty shallow you know.

Answer 10

Do you still like him? if yes then wait for him to make the move. He don't like women to make the first move. it turns him off. if you don"t like him anymore then tell him straight you don't like what he is doing. So he will stop annoying you.