My partner of 1 year is very nice 2 me & we get along great BUT is very selfish in bed (i can count on 2 hands the times he has given me oral). I buy him things all the time & he asks me to pick things up too often. I know hes short on cash (apartment, cell phone, car, college...), but he hasn't taken me out / bought anything for me in the past few months. He can foot the bills for we*d, though (one thing I will NEVER give him money 4). When I ask him to do something in bed, he might do it for a few seconds & then go back to what he wants even if I ask him to keep going.
I want to talk to him about everything, but he has made me feel bad about myself, and like I'm not worth it anymore. On top of everything, I found an old bill from buying his ex expensive flowers- he would never do that for me. Despite this, he is honest, doesn't cheat, and loves me for me- things that are very hard to find. Remind u, he is still very nice to me / loves me, he just doesnt go the extra mile. Advice?
2006-09-27
04:43:26
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