I was dating a guy who I believed was the 1 for me, who I could see marrying; yet he said we weren't Astrologically matched. I still feel the same. What are good ways to relieve my mind from thinking about him so often? How can I accept his decision without going into depression?
2006-09-27 04:20:32 · 27 answers · asked by letikittycat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
. . . next time check his star-sign before you put out . . .
2006-09-27 04:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think he is sincere as the reason for breaking up is lame to say the least. Therefore, there is no point in pinning for a lame Ex- boyfriend. True love transcends all barriers be it race, age, disability and especially Astrology! This experience will be part and parcel of your memory and experience forever, no point forgetting it, just learn from it and move on. Meet new friends in groups, keep yourself busy. Put it this way, you are given a second chance and you have the pick of the crop at your disposal hm mm enjoy this moment of choices before you are tied down forever to the next person you fell in love with.
2006-09-27 11:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by James Tiberius Kirk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why would you want someone who does not want you, and that sound so immature that your astrological sign does not match. You need to move on with your life, and the next friend you find, stay friend for a while, so you can get to really know each other! To get over him, start going out and having fun, take a course, or a class, learn how to have some fun!! This should not take long, to forget him, he is not that into you!! So why would you want to waste one minute of your time on thinking of him!
2006-09-27 11:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break -ups are hard, but the pain will pass. Try not to think about it too much by moving forward and keepin busy. Here's a few suggestions: set some new goals for yourself, take a class, join a club, get involved in politics or a community service project, hang out with friends etc. . .
2006-09-27 11:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by tnmtngirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to keep yourself from going into a depression about his decision is to get yourself active. Go out with friends and have a good time as often as you can.
2006-09-27 11:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by sassyndmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU !!!!!!!!!!!! Go out, treat your self and really get to know you and who you are. Take time out from men period. Hang out with your friends go do whatever YOU enjoy doing. F**K a man they can be assholes so get your self together so you won;t make the same mistake twice. then enjoy the single life, you nver know what your missing. I've been apart from my ex for 2 years we were together 6 and have 1 child together, so thats what i did and i have accomplished so much since i been away from him an love myself so much more and so do the fellas. Let this be a lesson learned and keep on moving. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-09-27 11:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. The sea is full of fish. Find one more worthy. Look in the right places. Go apple picking. Do not let this man get the best of you for the stupid reason he gave. Astrology matched. Hog wash. Find a true man who is not into such stupid stuff.
2006-09-27 11:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by iknow316brunc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes TIME. No quick fix will work. Enjoy being with friends, and on your own. Over time you will see he was not right for you, and a better fit will come along.
I wish I had better advice, but that's it. Keep your head high and you will do fine. You have a lot to offer, and something better will come along. But don't jump into a rebound either - that's usually a disaster.
Good luck.
2006-09-27 11:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
sorry to hear of your hurt but there is someoen out there betetr for you hun and you need to go and find someone to take your mind off him.. and realise you can have good times and what he's missing..I wish I had the quick magic cure but you need to do that on your own.. and soon you'll realise you''ll be happy with your new love that you will find..bet you doo.. hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2006-09-27 11:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by amber1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this guy sounds like a totally shithead, in my opinion. if any guy breaks up with you over not being "astrologically matched" then i think it worked out for the best. don't get me wrong, im not saying that you shouldn't be upset or hurt but i just think its bullshit.
now onto my good advice. just surround yourself with good friends that truly care about you and stay busy.
i hope i helped.
2006-09-27 11:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by hesloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only thing that will fix that. You can't make him change his mind...and you will be better off moving on. Do you really want to have star charts governing his actions, or would you rather have someone who makes their own decisions?
2006-09-27 11:26:20 · answer #11 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋