I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now and I want to have sex, at least once a day. I would have it more often left up to my devices. He says he doesn't need sex that often. He also says that after having sex, the next day he's more drained then usual and that I could run him ragged having sex with him everyday. He's 26 years old and I'm 24 years old. I thought that if any time in my life was ideal to have sex and a lot of it, it's in my 20s. I'm not a big or ugly girl. He tells me I'm beautiful all the time. So I don't think he's not sexually attracted to me. Is my sex drive to high? Is his sex drive to low? Are we just not sexually compatible?
2006-09-27 04:29:20 · 24 answers · asked by Tall Blonde Spaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should still be your honeymoon period, like sex at least 2/3 times a day! His only going to get worse as he gets older, unless he has sex therapy or something! But, sex isn't everything in a relationship, its just how important it is to you and can you live with the different sex drives! I wouldn't think so much about it, if your relationship is good then maybe you'll get used to it!
2006-09-27 04:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, he has a problem. I'm in my mid 30's and want to do it several times a day. Of course, i'm married with a baby, so guess how often it actually happens? Anyway, if he's drained the next day, then he needs to start exercising, eating better...take care of himself. He should not be wiped out at age 26. Unless of course, you two go at it for hours on end. But, if you're like most of us, it only takes a few minutes so why the drain?? If he does eat well, exercise, etc. then he needs to talk to a doctor since there could be a medical problem.
Is the sex you do have pleasurable? If so, then you are sexually compatible.
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2006-09-27 11:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong expect that you two have diffrent pase in sex life.
As an example, you need 100 points to get satisfaction with sex, while your bf only needs 40 points to be satisfied.
That doesn't mean he's not attracted to you. He's just not that into sex as you are.
So, if you can cope with it, great, but it doesn't sound like you're having enough. That's a huge problem in a relationship.
If you ask him too much for sex, he will eventually get tired of you very much, and don't want you any more.
So it's either you'll dump him in early stage, or you should be happy with what you're getting now. You can't really force someone to have sex...
2006-09-27 11:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm 29 and i just learned that women have a higher sex drive then younger men but get yourself a man over 30 when i tell you there is a difference it is a big difference. i was with my ex for 6 years and we are the same age, i'm with a 35 year old now and BABY its amazing we can go all night long and i have never climaxed thiss may times in my life.
2006-09-27 11:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He actually could have low testosterone levels which can be checked by a doc. If that is the case he would need HRT Hormone Replacement Therapy.
His sex drive should not be low but perhaps yours is just overactive. Normal is 3x a week but like you I prefer every day
2006-09-27 11:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His sex drive is to low, and it sounds like he's not in good shape, having sex should not make him feel tired in the least bit. Tell him more exercise and the right diet will bring his sex life back to life.
2006-09-27 11:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds average and you sounds above average. The average numbers of times is 3 times a week. It is not that bad that his drive is lower than yours. This way you can keep him in check. If his drive is higher than yours, insatiable, than what is to keep him at your side? He may need more women to fulfil his needs. So I say do not be too greedy, it is the quality that counts not the quantity!
2006-09-27 11:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by James Tiberius Kirk 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's sexually attracted to you,its just that he does have a lower sex drive than you do and there is no0thing wrong with that. He is who he is and no one can change that
2006-09-27 11:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the peak for guys is at 18 -26 is not bad but he might just not want to that often
2006-09-27 11:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is getting older and as men get older they tend to slow down as for women our sex drive dont increase a whole lot until our 30's believe it or not.....so u just like sex and there is nothing wrong with that....have fun enjoy ur reading way to much into it
2006-09-27 11:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋