This dude is a senior at my school and I like him a lot, but the only problem is that he has a girlfriend, and somebody told me that they've been dating a long time. I havn't ever talked to him but he looks at me a lot. I think he might like me but i'm not sure. I just got my heart broken with this other dude because he wouldn't date me because he said that I was to young. And i don't want my heart broken again so what do I do?
2006-09-27 04:23:41 · 24 answers · asked by Jessica G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want something to happen between you and Him, or just to answer your curiosity if he really likes You.then make a move.make a plan. maybe a coincident situation? you know what i am talking about.so you get to know each other "accidentally".then everything will start from that. if he likes you even if he has a gf, you know guys, still gonna flirt with you. =o
2006-09-27 04:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by young_biz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess you are only infatuated and it's not like you really like the guy or something. Truth is you haven't ever talked to him right?
I suggest (sadly) that you don't read too much into the looking at you part. People can look your way all the time but it's not like they are planning anything in their mind. Heck, I look around when I am bored, look at people when they are ugly/pretty or just happen to look ahead when I am walking.
Don't just hope to jump into another relationship when you just got out of one. There are others out there who can help soothe your broken heart, like your friends and family. Almost nothing good comes out from rebound relationships, because you either hurt yourself again, or hurt another in the process.
And he's already attached. You do not want to walk around in school with a reputation of being a flirt or what-ever they call it in your culture...
Take it from me: I am out of a r/s eight months ago too. It took daily calls to my friends and whole lot of work to help me forget that all the pain I went through during the breakup. But time will pass and your hurt will disappear too.
Take care and don't do anything foolish!!
2006-09-27 11:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by syrope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date guys that have a girlfriend!! u will only get a broken heart! either find someone else u like and keep away from him until he doesnt have a gf!! good luck
2006-09-27 11:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies with a friend. Everybody looks at everyone. So if he has a girlfriend, the only reason he islooking at you is because he can feel your stare. Stay away from him he is probably a real jerk anyway.
2006-09-27 11:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by lexi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are young you will meet alot of men in time don't rush into things you will end up getting hurt jsut like you said you have been...so just relax enjoy your teen years and let thinkgs just fall into place....never try being the girl on the side it never works and if he ends up leaving his girl he already has for you...just sit back and think he will end up leaving you for another girl that will come his way....don't rush into things okay...good luck
2006-09-27 11:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE.just because he looks at you DOESN'T mean he likes you.studies have been done and the fact is that a guy would more likely to like a girl that is normal looking but knows her then a girl who is pretty and don't know her.so if you've never have spoken before,he probably doesn't like you.PLEASE don't go after him.how would you feel if you were his girl friend and this girl started get all over him?
2006-09-27 11:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-27 11:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Hugues (le Corse !) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mess with guys who have girlfriends. just put yourself into his gf's position. it really hurts when someone is trying to screw up a relationship. i know u are young, but be mature about this. its not worth it to hurt someone else. find a guy without a girlfriend. trust me--there are plenty of them.
2006-09-27 11:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by pinkie443 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him them learn to let him go.He has a girlfriend so get away from him or find another guy that has no gf.
2006-09-27 11:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay well clear! His looking at other girls 'a lot' when his with someone already! Just shows what kind of a bloke he is!
2006-09-27 11:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋