First of all, only non-judgemental and mature answers please.
I have not been in a relationship for over a 1 1/2 years. I go to this bar and I like the DJ. I got tipsy and he escorted me home, only for me to tease him sexually. I now regret it because I feel bad about myself. That is not the real me. Also, I really only go to the bar to drink and a lot of times, I over do it. Not to the point of staggering, just a bit much for a woman. He comes to me while I am there and tells me I do not like him because he is "short," that's not true. But, I have displayed a side of me that should have been left for a long time after. Is there anything that I can do to clear the situation? I thought about leaving him a card on his windshield, not saying too much but, just letting him know that he did not meet the real me. Or, should I just forget about it and stop beating myself?
2006-09-27 04:34:37 · 8 answers · asked by Sunny Day 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, u "were" drunk right? so alot of mistakes happen when you are..just explain to him that u didn't mean to lead him on, is just that u were under the influence and was acting out of character...and lighten up on the drinking..it's very dangerous out here in this crazy world..be careful..keep your head clear..
2006-09-27 04:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Fabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, i imagine so that you could confer with him. tell him your sorry and that you do not somewhat mean what you suggested and say in case you would not do something to interrupt him because he's your suitable pal (as you suggested once you've been telling the tale). And who's usual with possibly he's gay and thinks you'll make relaxing of him if he were to allow you to recognize. So possibly in case you 2 somewhat divulge to one yet another and are somewhat sturdy acquaintances and also you could talk about that then you actually ought to tell him that you'll love him both way. (like a pal of route)
2016-11-24 22:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by zollars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, when people get drunk they show their true selves. Secondly, he did see the real you. The way you can clear this situation is by being honest. If you don't want people to think bad of you, then don't present yourself in a manner that will draw negative attention. Good luck with that.
2006-09-27 04:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u planned on teasing him sexually after 6 months then ur a saint....please he just got to see the real you, i mean if u plan on teasing him after months, ur just acting as a saint of 6 months then the real u comes out, i'm not saying that its wrong, its like me saying, yeah i dont beat up women until after 8 months, what would happened if i would beat up a girl the first day i met her? i would feel bad about myself and i would leave a card on her windshield telling her that that wasn't the real me.....jajajajajjajajaa
2006-09-27 04:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Leon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually best to apologize for whatever the circumstance if you feel that's it' warranted. Verbal is usually better.
The bar scene is sort of weird, in any event and as a man, I will say that an honest man who respects women wouldn't be seeking sex, anyway.
2006-09-27 04:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool
2014-08-21 05:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go with the card if he understands you then he really likes you and if he does not he probably just wanted u know what!! good luck
2006-09-27 04:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by *********** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either apologize to him, or forget about it and move on.
2006-09-27 04:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋