Singles & Dating - 16 September 2006

2006-09-16 02:02:21 · 22 answers · asked by vilmis 1

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

2006-09-16 02:00:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i work at the local mall at a shades/body jewelry kiosk and i have no trouble at all gettin looks from women walkin nearby nor talkin to them. my problem is, how do i show interest w/o staring or lookin creepy?

2006-09-16 01:59:53 · 11 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

does female masturbation make any difference during intercourse?what im sayin is, if a chick masturbated b4 sex, will the guy notice a difference?i have had situations where it just didnt feel the same and the chick said oh i masturbated so that must be why. she felt looser so i was doubting she cheated, so i was wondering if it would make THAT much difference.

2006-09-16 01:56:41 · 9 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

how low do u reakon it would take to get my 40 yr old gf pregnant

2006-09-16 01:56:05 · 28 answers · asked by johnny 2

I have just finished a course in a classroom setting with an instructor I have come to like.....cos he has helped me pull through the difficult times...I have come to like him because of his kindness and soft nature...How do I handle my feelings without giving the impression that I am interested in him?

2006-09-16 01:52:37 · 7 answers · asked by singirl 3

like, what will a guy do if he likes u? i've heard that if guys tease u they like u, but i don't know when it's a like-u

2006-09-16 01:51:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he answered "f***" so then she said Ok bye... and he then answered with S***..all on IM he is just 14 or 15. The girl now is hurt and cried.

2006-09-16 01:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by for_ever_kobe 1

2006-09-16 01:48:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are virgin men big-time turn-offs? Do the men in mid or late 20s who preserve themselves for the right girl....are turn offs? Are the ones who will only do it with the girl they love immoral? Or do you admire the ones who lose virginity as early as possible.

2006-09-16 01:46:39 · 16 answers · asked by Razor 5

I think she had an orgasm too but I so scared this is so unnatural.

2006-09-16 01:43:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in College right now. There's a really cute girl in one of my classes; thing is, everytime I see her, she never smiles and always seems either sad or angry. And she never talks. Now I'm not one of those who have problems with talking to girls, as I had a girlfriend a few years back; it's just this one. To make it worse, the class we share is the ONLY one we share, and it's in the Lecture Hall, thus it has over 70 people in it. And she ALWAYS sits alone, (that is, not right next to anyone, always at least a seat away). I would've already sat next to her one day, if not for the fact that I also share the class with one of my best friends, and I don't want to be messed up and just ditch him to sit with her. And after that class, I always have a meeting right after, making it impossbile for me to catch up to her.
So basically, she's unapproachable, I can't sit with her because that would be messed up to my friend, I can't catch up to her after class, and that's the ONLY time I see her

2006-09-16 01:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by Deadman 666 2

I have known this guy for two years as a friend and its only recently that w started dating. He is super ambitious and I am okay with that. The thing is that in this workaholic phase, he often fails to call or make plans. I usually make all plan. The best thing is that he never lets go of a chance to each other. He is quick to accept my plans and is always super loving when we meet or talk. But I am not sure where this is going. One more thing, I am not the type he was looking for but fell in love eventually because he feels I am super sweet. I wanna know if as a third person, do you see any real long term potential in this relationship.

2006-09-16 01:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-16 01:38:12 · 11 answers · asked by beaaaatch 1

How should i behave around my date if i never dated before? How guys view me and will you guys date me? I am educated, average looking, quiet and shy person, sensitive..maybe i am bored?

2006-09-16 01:37:25 · 22 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3

She wouldn't let me copy her homework, hugs and compliments guys in front of my face? Is she trying to make me jealous?

2006-09-16 01:31:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite some time now, and we have started making love on occasion. I am worried, though... she doesn't like to use condoms (I think she's allergic to latex, from what she's described to me), and her health insurance will not cover the high cost of birth control. What other forms of protection from an unwanted pregnancy are there, and what are the pros/cons to them?

2006-09-16 01:30:30 · 29 answers · asked by vanettenjrp2 1

ive never had my first kiss.how does it feel when u kiss a guy & how do u do it?my frendz have dun it & they said it was cool.

2006-09-16 01:29:58 · 14 answers · asked by dodo brain 2

I'm sixteen and i don't have a driving license whereas my boyfriend is seventeen and has a driving license. He doesn't have a car and doesn't dare to lend his parent's car as he isn't close with them(he lived with his grandparents when he was small). We haven't met for seven months and i'm starting to get tired of everything. When i see my friends with their boyfriends doing all kinds of fun things i just feel so jealous. He said he could cycle to meet me if i want but i think its too dangerous and he hasn't even asked me out, it's always when i start to talk to him about not meeting then he will say "if u really want to meet me i can cycle to meet u." I feel this answer is very insincere. Should i break up? I think i do love him.

P.S: we've only met once in february.

2006-09-16 01:26:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-16 01:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by Liz C 1

This is the most debated question among any co-ed gathering. I would like to see what you think. BE NICE AND GIVE ME GOOD REASONS TO SUPPORT YOUR ANSWER!!!!! HOLLA!!!!

2006-09-16 01:19:54 · 18 answers · asked by D-Wizzle 2

or does the black man hold himself down? seems pretty easy to me to be able to screw up your life and then blame it on someone else, right?

black ppl are their own worst enemy...am i wrong?

2006-09-16 01:19:25 · 16 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2

2006-09-16 01:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by ahhhlain 3

2006-09-16 01:16:42 · 12 answers · asked by muchthirteen 1

what reason could you have for continuning to spend time with this person?

2006-09-16 01:15:17 · 26 answers · asked by Sasha 3

Is there anything wrong with going to a football game with your bestfriends and you see youi ex-boyfriend there and he wants you to come sit with him but you tell him no. then a lot of mess get jumped off cause he don't know and don't wanna let go?

2006-09-16 01:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by peaches 2

2006-09-16 01:08:51 · 14 answers · asked by Ricky N 1

about some mouth ago i found a nice girl in my school, she aproched me, and she was prety an not to fat but iloved her we talk a lot but when i asked her the location of her house she was like u no makeing her face like she do not like that kind of thing so i close the case so later called her but never picked the phone (but my greast problem was that she is always with her frinds and am afread to talk to her )she never made her smile to me agone

2006-09-16 01:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by osuwasmile 1

On the first day of school, my boyfriend totally ignored me. And it was just before school when he sent me a txt saying that he loves me and can't wait to see me! When he were going past each other,he wouldn't look at me. He looked at me when I was talking to my friends (then I looked at him once or twice) and when my mother came to pick me up. I think I talked to everyone in the class except my bf,he is kind of shy though and i didn't pay much attention to him either. i think that he is hurt, I wanna txt him something sweet because he might not pick up if i call him... Any ideas of what to do?

2006-09-16 01:01:56 · 28 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1

ladies what do you think?

2006-09-16 01:01:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous