On the first day of school, my boyfriend totally ignored me. And it was just before school when he sent me a txt saying that he loves me and can't wait to see me! When he were going past each other,he wouldn't look at me. He looked at me when I was talking to my friends (then I looked at him once or twice) and when my mother came to pick me up. I think I talked to everyone in the class except my bf,he is kind of shy though and i didn't pay much attention to him either. i think that he is hurt, I wanna txt him something sweet because he might not pick up if i call him... Any ideas of what to do?
2006-09-16 01:01:56 · 28 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the sounds of it, you didn't even say Hi to him. That would be a good place to start. How do you think he feels, if you talked to everyone in class but him?
If there's a lack of communication, the problem is with both of you, not just him.
2006-09-16 01:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know of people who do this, and yes, they are somewhat shy people, but that's not why they do it. They do it coz they're ashamed and want to look good in front of others for some reason, and do not see they could accomplish it with the person they are ignoring better than if they ignore.
You are sweet to worry he is hurt.... Quick question: Why didn't you invite him to join you and your friends when you two were exchanging looks?
How old are you two? That might be part of things.
I can't think of anything "to do" except don't do it next time; try to invite him to talk with you next time. Other than that....
2006-09-16 01:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either shy, doesn't want to be seen WITH you. Have you been on dates? Both of your ages would say a lot. Do not be desperate. A real boyfriend walks you to class, go to movies, out to eat, arm around the shoulder, etc.
Boys are a lot of talk and sometimes not much action.
2006-09-16 01:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get out of high school and are a little older, this stuff won't happen to you anymore!
Call him! If you guys are together, you shouldn't be afraid to call him because he's you're boyfriend! And after you get off the phone, send him a cute text message saying how much you miss him and that you're happy everything is settled again!
2006-09-16 01:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, stop all this silliness. God, cannot believe how immature you teenagers are! Just try to grow up and stop the game playing. If he wants to talk to you then he will. If he is hurt then that is his feeling to deal with......not yours. Stop the texting and all that junvenile behavior. Pay attention to your school work and see what happens. Geeeeeesh!!!
2006-09-16 01:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi i saw you at school today, i saw you with your friends and since you did not say hi....so i didn't say anything either, I didn't want to interrupt you with your friends ..but i am calling you now to ask you what happened...Why you did not say hi..i thought you was dieing to see me....well,i am calling or text messaging you to tell you how i feel and ask what happened today was it something i said...?..so, my advise to you is ..to call him and ask him why he did not say hi to you..Good luck...if that don't work then you need to meet new people and friends and forget about him...and don't stoop yourself too low that he will take advantage ..if he don't want to talk to you then...hey, next....!...=)
2006-09-16 01:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are learning some good stuff.
Take the lessons and let them help you grow and ...perhaps, you can learn why it is important to think of yourself and the flakiness of people before you let go of your hold on your heart to easily...life is just like this only BIGGER!!
2006-09-16 01:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by itwisme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels as though you ignored him. You should say somthing also i mean your his girlfriend if i seen my boyfriend in school i wouldnt just walk by him and if he ignored me i wouldnt ignore back i would say somthing to him like whats wrong with you..
2006-09-16 01:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by becca . 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem very nice or caring. He hasn't seen you the whole summer vacation and then on the first day he ignores you.You should dump him.
2006-09-16 01:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋