She's 18, i'm 16; we're both lesbians.
I'm in college, and she's joining the airforce, so we're both more mature than our age.
Whenever i see her she hugs me, and she kissed me on my birthday, but acted like it was a joke. i don't know if that means she likes me or not. She's really hard to get to know because she's kind of defensive. I know she's been hurt badly in the past, and I would never want to cause her more pain.
I love her, but I also value her freindship. I don't want to ruin that by telling her I'm attracted to her. (She already knows that i love her to death, but as a friend).
I don't want this girl to leave without knowing how much I love her, even if I'm the one that ends up hurt. But I also don't want to cause any problems for her, so if it's in her best interest, I'll stay quiet.
So what should I do? And if I should tell her, how?
2006-09-12
16:02:14
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Lizzi
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