i feel so sad whenever i see a beautiful lady in the street, because i know i'll never have a mate like that..so when ever i see a beautiful lady ,as soon as i look at her my mind starts going "wow, how beautiful" but i purposedly stop the feeling and turn around to not look at her because i know i'll become sad ... Does this do me bad or is it good for me to forget that which i can never have?
2006-09-12 16:06:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find a way to express your feelings. Meet more women and interact with them. Tell them what you feel.
It is probably not appropriate to go up to a woman on the street and tell her that you think she is beautiful. You should find women that you can talk to and open up to. What you are feeling is perfectly normal, and if you don't express your feelings it will make them worse in the long run.
2006-09-12 16:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by professional student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No other man in this planet can make you stop your feeling of attraction for beautiful women because it's all in your mind. So, if I were you, I'll never ever suppress that feeling inside me.
in your case, a little depression sets in whenever you see a beautiful lady because you believe that you can't have her as your girl. Wow! That's something that you will have to eliminate from your weary mind. I've known a lot of couples where the guys are very ugly while the women are very beautiful. I've even read a very pretty and rich woman marrying a very ugly and poor guy.
I don't believe, in your case, that it is about your looks that you think you can't get a pretty woman., May be, it's in your self-confidence. You don't trust yourself. You have an inferiority complex. You see you as way down below that category of men the women like. No, no. Don't feel that way. Love yourself. Believe in your capabilities that others don't have.
Then, when you already have that self-confidence, believe firmly in your heart that if ever you meet a beautiful girl, beatiful enough to be the woman with whom you will like to share your life, then go for it. Court her with gentleness, sweetness and enormous love. Chances are, you'll thank me the next ime you write some stuffs here at Yahoo Answers for opening your eyes to the truth that... ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE. Good luck.
2006-09-12 16:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do u know u will never have a beautiful woman? Its wrong for u to think that u will never have anyone that u think is beautiful!U will if u just reach out and start showing your inner beauty to these women. I think that is very sweet what u wrote .I hope u find someone as beautiful as u are!
2006-09-12 16:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. when you see a beautiful girl. what's the second thing after thinking "wow, how beautiful"? if your answer is "it will be ******* awsome to sleep with her" then just keep doing what you do. but if your answer is "she could be cool to hang out with" then just be normal. talk to her like as if you would with the uglier ppl.
beautiful girls are not different then anyone else. I know plenty of them have confident issues. if you go and talk to her, she turns out to be a snob. then it means she's dame ugly inside. but if she's also friendly, that means she also has a beautiful personality. girls like confident guys. so when you talk and joke to them as how you would talk to your mates. they will appricate that. :D good luck
2006-09-12 16:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by LeoRS250 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how beautiful she is and see if she will talk back... girls are shy too... I swear to you if you actually go and talk to one of them... a little at a time.... and get to know them... one day one of of them could be your girl... but that is only if you stop surpressing your feelings, start a conversation (don't be shy!!!), and get to know one of these girls. Be open and friendly and a girl will notice you. But you have to shine out and look happy. girls like boys who stand out and are polite and kind. You sound like all of these but all you need to do is make it a point to say hi! Be bold! Be brave! Venture into untreaded waters! If you do that one will be bound to notice! Maybe more! ;) =) :) Good luck and don't forget to say hi!
2006-09-12 16:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude- you need a lesson in self confidence- self sabotaging yourself- you are going to end up a lonely miserable old man- strike up a conversation next time you never know where it may leads but if you don't try you will never know- nobody will care about yourself piety
2006-09-12 16:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by roydono 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the store and by a king sized bottle of
Confidence. If Jay Z can bag beyonce, anything can happen.
2006-09-12 16:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by whatwouldyodado2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you,holding your animal instincts in can't be healthy
2006-09-12 16:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by aries4272 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any pressure ends up in something getting deformed, you dont want that to happen to your feelings
2006-09-12 16:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you gotta take a chance TOO!
2006-09-12 16:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by want2no 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋