i have always wondered what it would be like to have gay sex but i am straight and have a girlfriend should i try it for one time just to see how it is or should i just leave it alone please help me i rlly dont know what to do
2006-09-12 16:10:46 · 20 answers · asked by miguel_rey_nut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that everyone here that has commented to you before me is passing judgement on you just for the thoughts.
Thoughts have not and will never make you gay. I believe that whether you are straight, gay, or bi-sexual the first thing you have to remember is you are a person first!!
I know a lot of "straight" people that stalk gay people just to have soemthing different for themselves.
I think what you should do is sit down with your gay friend and ask him questions about his life and lifestyle. Ask him how he found out that he was gay. There is not a gay person anywhere that would not answer that question!
Then once you have chatted with him, and before you do anything, you need to reflect on what he said before charging inot something that might totally change your life.
If you do it and it is good...does that officially mean you are gay?? No.
If you do it and it is bad...does that mean you are really staight?? Not nessessarily.
All these questions are very good, but ultimatly it comes to who you are as a person. If you do go through with having sex with your gay friend, be very safe...I would also make sure no one knows about it so it will not go back to your girl friend and get misunderstood.
Whatever you decide...just be sure you use your head and think before you distroy anyone's life...including your own.
2006-09-14 08:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by krys7777 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No matter what you decide, the fact is that you are not crazy about this girl and fullfilled in your relationship with her or you wouldn't have these desires. So I would say, let her off the hook so that she can find the right fella for her, and then you can decide weather to pursue a gay lifestyle or at least a relationship where you feel happy and not about having sex with others. Remember if you go with a guy it is still cheating, does your girlfriend deserve that? Good luck.
2006-09-12 16:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by el 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to refrain from passing judgement on you.. Keep in mind that having "gay" relations will only benefit you in your sexual needs.
Do you want a family? Two men can't make a baby.
If you have a girlfriend, take her feelings into consideration too. Don't do something like this behind her back. If you're curious, explore it - But keep in mind that God forbid's two men being sexual together.
I was curious about what it would be like having relations with another women - I tried it, and was in a three year relationship with this girl. We were best friends, but had "hooked up" too. But being with another woman for the rest of my life is not something I plan on doing. I will say that I'm bi-sexual though - I love being with a woman, but I cherish being with a man more because I want my own family someday, and that's how God created us (for a man and women to unite as one)
Listen to your heart, that's all I can say.
Don't listen to these people telling you to become a Jesus freak or anything like that. I know where you're coming from. Just be honest with those around you and fast forward to the consequences of your actions.
2006-09-12 16:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Seems like yur j ust begging to do it at least once to see if you would like it. Hell there are so many bi's around what difference does the gf make with it? what ever blows yer skirt up I guess, but I sure am not going to give you an answer.
for all I know by now you already did try.
2006-09-12 16:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well for starters, if you have been thinking about it? Your gay! Their is nothing wrong with being gay, you just have to accept the fact that you have attraction to the same sex! If its wandering in your mind? You should try it! But remember, that when you have sex with another man...........You will be Gay!
2006-09-12 16:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I don't think you are gay for just thinking on the subject of having gay sex with your friend. But, I do think the decision should be yours, and yours alone.
2006-09-12 16:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by knownothing 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
dear fruitbag,
if you have always wondered what it would be like to have gay sex then YOU ARE GAY. stop saying you're straight just because you have a girlfriend. if you want to get your butt plugged by a guy, or vice versa, you are clearly homosexual.
signed, me
p.s. - fruitbag.
2006-09-12 16:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't you even think about trying it. It's weird to have sex with the same gender.
I bet you that you won't miss not having experience with this type of sex.
Can't imagine how you could find pleasure in ******* to the *** hole.
2006-09-12 16:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Rod 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Honey, your not straight, your Bi! Time to live and experience life to
the Fullest. Go for it. Life is short, maybe he's not! Don't blow it!
2006-09-12 16:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Charles H 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to try it do it....then feel bad for what you have done. I think your gay, you just haven't came out yet and are using your girlfriend as a cover up! shame on you!
2006-09-12 16:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by Dani 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋