Singles & Dating - 3 September 2006

My boyfriend is childish and acts like a child. He also calls me nasty names like ****,*****, and a whore when he is angry at me. I've been with three other guys, all of them I dated from months to four years so I know I'm not a whore. I think he only does these because he's afraid I will cheat on him so he plays these mind games to keep me with him. I'm not attracted to him because of this and his childish behavior. He doesn't act like a man most of the time and acts like a class clown. Are any of you women attracted to the class clown type guys?

The real reason I asked is because I've been with one hideous guy and still was attracted to him, and before this was too horny to turn my boyfriends down when they asked for it. But I am actually turned off so much with my current boyfriend that I don't want to do it at all, even with other guys. Is this normal? Is it me? I want my sex drive back and I wonder if his guilt trip is the cause or if it is just me?

2006-09-03 08:05:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm new to this and wanna know what woman out thier would like a guy that has his own business going and makes money to share with that special someone? I don't judge anyone but if UR in it for the money don't reply.

2006-09-03 08:04:23 · 21 answers · asked by Alex Sagataw 1

I went out with this girl about 2-3 years ago, but she broke up with me, her friend told me she still have feelings for me about 3 months later, but i didnt do anything cause i was stupid and young. Now I see her about everyday and i just can't get my mind off her, whenever im around her i get this weird feeling and i get very shy and nervous, that i normally not get around anyone. I know i still love her but, now i think she is going out with another guy(not 100% sure), and i have no idea what i can do.

2006-09-03 08:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by George 2

what do women look for in men? are as shallow as most of us guys or are they into something a little deeper?

2006-09-03 08:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have recently started a new job in an area where I do not know anyone. I want to meet new people, make friends and most importantly meet single girls. Where should I go? What should I do? I don't want to sit at home lonely every evening.

2006-09-03 08:02:38 · 24 answers · asked by CTU 3

Ok, at the end of the last school year i developed a huge crush on this girl in my class. This year she isnt in any of my classes but i see her very briefly at lunch. Ive never actually talked to her before and im not sure what i should even say to her. Any Advice?

2006-09-03 08:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by Stargazer 2

I met a guy at work about a month ago, and although I don't know him really well, I am seriously attracted to him. We sometimes work a shift alone and I thought he was flirting with me because of the things he said and the way he acted. Then my best friend said something that, although it was really stupid, it gave me the idea that he flirts with her too. How can I tell if he's attracted to me or if he's just a flirty guy?

2006-09-03 08:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by lmr87 1

2006-09-03 08:01:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 07:59:59 · 24 answers · asked by Marissa 1

2006-09-03 07:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by sassylouhen 1

I am 17 I live in joplin and I have a job. I cant stand being single will I ever find a guy who wont treat me like crap? I am not shy so you can ask me any questions!

2006-09-03 07:58:08 · 16 answers · asked by bloody tear 1

What do they do to you? Can they take your stuff?

2006-09-03 07:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by sonny 2

Just wondering what the best way would be to meet and flirt with a girl during a college lecture. I do great when meeting girls at parties and what not but when it comes to meeting girls in my classes, I always flame out. Just looking for ideas on what to say and how to act. Please only answer if you are or have been a college student. Answers from females definitely appreciated. Thanks a lot!

2006-09-03 07:57:05 · 9 answers · asked by sbuck101186 1

i care for her alot but she says what its impossible to get into a relationship with me...how can i prove to her its not?

2006-09-03 07:56:34 · 12 answers · asked by jete413 1

2006-09-03 07:54:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 07:53:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Much older like 40's, how can I find them and let them know I want to date them...

2006-09-03 07:52:31 · 18 answers · asked by manque 2

I like my best mates guy and he keeps coming on to me I don't know whether to tell my m8 'cos we have a strong bond, but I like this guy too so I don't know whether to go along 'cos I really like him what do I do, and no gush about who is more important, 'cos I really don't know!!!!!!!!! HELP!!!

2006-09-03 07:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by laurentotty2000 2

Ok...I started going out w/ this guy on Thurs. and he broke up with me on Friday b/c he was going to Aruba..............BUT he wants to go back out when he gets back in a week.... Do you think that was stupid????
Do you think I should go bak out with him????
Please guy and girl respones!!!

2006-09-03 07:49:00 · 14 answers · asked by Lorraine 3

2006-09-03 07:48:17 · 17 answers · asked by eternal 1

Gimme your best!

2006-09-03 07:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by jennilaine777 4

okay... if u read my last question about my boyfriend, the message that he sen tto this other girl on myspace wasnt from him, i didnt read all the way to the bottom where it sed who that was from. ANYWAY today i found out that my boyfrend was doing "things" to my best friend i used to not care as much... but i told him if he did it again i would break up with him. should i send him a message saying what i found out and that its over? or should i jsut get over it?? idk i really need help =[

2006-09-03 07:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by sexxi_baby06 2

Do you like when your girlfriends...place...is hairy and bushy, or when its partly shaved (where and how much?) or all of it shaved?

2006-09-03 07:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by fancylady 2

2006-09-03 07:47:23 · 37 answers · asked by Kirsti 1

i love a guys that write poetry.

2006-09-03 07:45:01 · 14 answers · asked by BLAH! 2

we are in love and her mom hates me she sets her up on blind dates and she dont wont nobody but me i need advise.

2006-09-03 07:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Step one---complete (get him to notice you and WANT to talk to you---time to complete step...40 minutes)

Step two---complete (mention homecoming around him example: "So sarah, who do you want to ask you to homecoming...blah blah...I DONT HAVE A DATE SARAH!!!)

Step three---incomplete (getting him to ask you.)

i'm not gonna say "hey so who are you asking to homecoming?" thats way too obvious for this guy. Times running out? I'm just starting to get friends so I can't "accidentally let my secret slip" the way other ppl can.

Pros: In class, he spends alot of time trying to get my attention when i'm talking to sarah "yes that wasn't just an example" so i can always bring up homcoming and he'll be listening

- last time i brought it up i'm not sure he heard but i caught him starring at me...hm...

Cons: Times running out

- someone said he may have a date...but then y would i get extra attention?

- TIMES RUNNING OUT!!!!!!

2006-09-03 07:44:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get as far as to ask for their number but then wehen we get on the phone idk what to talk about so we both just sit there holding the phone not saying n e thing can someone help me with this problem i have

2006-09-03 07:44:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY boyfriend of 2 months recently told me that he has feelings for my friend Kayley as more than a friend. He said he loves me alot more. and that he would never leave me for her, but the fact that he still said this bothers me.... what do you think?

2006-09-03 07:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by prometida 3

Thank you for your replys.

2006-09-03 07:42:43 · 9 answers · asked by peace1love04 1