we are in love and her mom hates me she sets her up on blind dates and she dont wont nobody but me i need advise.
2006-09-03 07:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey look i no this doesnt have anything to do with ur question but i have the same problem my mom hates my bf and shes making me to stop loving him but we really love each other and shes making me marry another boy that i dont like but this is what am doing right now since she hates my bf i still didnt give up and no body will ever breaks us apart
2006-09-03 07:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there must be more to the story ?? why does she feel you are inadequate for her daughter ? I could understand if she didnt want her daughter to see boys yet ,but you state she is in fact trying to have her daughter go out with other boys . You need to find out why her mother has such a low opinion of you,In the meantime do all you can to be a good honest person,make sure you have a nice clean appearence when you see her mother and above all be very polite and never disrespect the mother or the daughter .A girl will tell her mom everything,if you and your girlfriend have ever had any kind of problem in your relationship then you can bet her mom knows about it, So when the girl is mad at you or unhappy at the moment she will tell her mom and try to get comfort,so what her mom sees is only the hurt you put her ''little girl'' through..The girl will hardly ever tell her mom the great things you have done or all the times you make her feel special and improtant,So the mom sees one side and it is nearly impossible for her to have a high opinion of you.....Depending on you age and how you feel ,just start to slowly remove youself from the scene.The girl will either stop letting her mom control her life or she will cowtail to her moms demands for the rest of her life and yours too if you stick with her.Mothers have a huge amount of control over there daughters more so than a dude can comperhend ,I dont know your age so its hard to give a good assesment of what could be going on here , but I suspect her mom has heard her cry about how you hurt her feeling that time or whatever, a girls mom will only know the bad things about a girls boyfriend never the good .........its a tough deal , I have been married 6 years and still her mom loves to make waves.........sorry to hear it man .....I think if her mom is a rag then just move on .............
2006-09-03 07:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HER MOM SEES SOMETHING THAT YOU ALL ARE BLIND TO RIGHT NOW. IF YOU FEEL THAT SHE IS WORTH IT, THEN STAY, BUT KNOW THAT IF YOU MARRY THIS WOMAN THINGS COULD GET 156 TIMES WORSE. HOPEFULLY THE MOTHER WILL COME AROUND SOON AND REALIZE THAT YOU ARE REALLY A GOOD PERSON. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-03 07:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her mom is trying to break you up...You're probably too young to be dating in any case.
2006-09-03 07:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and buy your own place. Then she can't tell you who to be with.
2006-09-03 07:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by tmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your really in love, you would stay together no matter what anyone else says.
2006-09-03 07:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋