I like my best mates guy and he keeps coming on to me I don't know whether to tell my m8 'cos we have a strong bond, but I like this guy too so I don't know whether to go along 'cos I really like him what do I do, and no gush about who is more important, 'cos I really don't know!!!!!!!!! HELP!!!
2006-09-03 07:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by laurentotty2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not imagining it he tried to kiss me in front of my m8s sister!!!!!!!!!!!! I've tried to tell her but shes not listening!!
2006-09-03 08:06:39 · update #1
Don't be a stupid girl. If he leaves her for you, he will leave you for the next dumb *** girl that looks at him. Don't betray your friend, thats just cold.
2006-09-03 07:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you didnt say if your "mate" was male or female...
If your mate is a male, I would stick with him and quit flirting around or you will get a reputation of been "easy" if you give in to your "friend".
He is there for easy sex, and if you give it to him, you will hate yourself and feel guilty all the time, thus, the break up of your friendship or what ever you call it..(never heard of "best mate")
Now if its a girlfriend, and you hit on her mate, then you are guilty and you will never be trusted again by this girl and her boyfriend will use you and afterwards talk to his friends about how "easy" you were, and he will have a "feather in his cap" at his conquest!
I hope you stop your silliness for your own sake and that of your mate and the friend.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-09-03 14:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's up to you. Do you want your mates guy? Or do you want to keep your friendship. If this guy is coming on to you, what makes you think that if he got with you, he wouldn't do it to you. He is a sneak!! He is untrustworthy. Do you really want to be with someone who would come on to his girlfriend's friend? He sounds like trouble to me.
Tell your mate!!! There are so many guys in this world, why would you waste your time on this piece of trash. He may be in a good looking package, but inside he's a piece of trash.
Tell your mate.... you'll feel better about it. if you act on your feelings about this guy, you will regret it, trust me.
2006-09-03 14:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want a player like that?
what do you think he's gonna do to you when you two get together? he's gonna keep playing, because that's what players do!
your friendship is WAY more important than him.
tell your friend what he's trying to do and tell her that you can't believe he'd try to go behind her back, hitting on you and all!
your friend deserves better and so do you.
2006-09-03 14:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your 'm8' that ur trying to be honest with her, and that u like her boyfriend, and u think he keeps hitting on u.
2006-09-03 14:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by meh, who cares... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you aren't best friends if you are tempted to betray her like this. i think you will be sorry in the long run if you act on your impulses with this guy who doesn't respect his current girlfriend. i dont think its a matter of who's more important to you, because you are already leaning towards doing your friends fella, i guess its more a question of how you define friendship.
2006-09-03 14:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop ONE GUY shouldnt come between u and ur mate if shes really ur mate dont let it ull find some nice guy whose all urs
2006-09-03 14:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by abeautyourstruly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your imagining cos u like the guy
and anyways hes your friends guy so get over him and find a guy for urself
ur friends more important, especialy if its your best friend...if u can doubt whos more important..then...wow, ur really stupid
2006-09-03 14:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them both know your situation. It's bound to come to a head some time. Make it your choice of time and place. At any rate, be prepared to lose one or both.
2006-09-03 14:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by elefante44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best mate the truth. And untill then don't put your self into any awkward situations aolne with him.
2006-09-03 14:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋