There is a guy at college who I am very interested in and really like. We've kept in touch through email over the summer and he called me last weekend and we talked for almost four hours. I will be seeing him when we get back to school on Saturday. The problem is that I recently ended a relationship that I had been in for over a year and a half, and I don't feel ready to take on another boyfriend yet. To compound this problem, my ex called Monday to tell me that he's moving across the country, and I got a lot more upset about it than I thought I would. If it come up (and I'm fairly certain that it will!), how do I tell this guy at school that I really like him and I would be really happy to go out on dates with him and get to know him better, but I'm not ready for a boyfriend, without him thinking I'm just trying to let him down gently and that I'll never be interested in being his girlfriend, which is NOT the case? Please, I don't need snide or lewd remarks, just help.
2006-08-23
13:25:18
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Cat Loves Her Sabres
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