i met this girl last week. and we exchanged numbers. she is cool, and she likes me. the problem is i don't know how long you should wait to tell her i have feelings for you, i don't wanna wait long because she might find another guy, and i don't wanna jump into too quickly.
2006-08-23 13:38:36 · 18 answers · asked by K!NG COBRA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she likes you...then you should tell her...before she thinks u dont have a thing for her...tell her how u feel
2006-08-23 13:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can show her you have feelings for her by doing nice things for her and with her and caring about her feelings. You are right to not want to tell her too soon. Just take it slow and you will know when the time is right. Who knows, she may tell you first! You sound like a nice guy as opposed to so many of the guys who post on this site, and I am sure whoever you end up with will consider herself lucky to have found you.
2006-08-23 13:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres what you should do. Number 1 if she likes you i wouldn't worry she won't have eyes for another guy her heart and feelings with be you. Call her and let her know you like her and shes sweet and all that just don't do it smothering like i wanna marry you and have kids and spend the rest of my life with you, that will probably push her away. If shes a good woman she will appreciate your feelings and honesty
Good luck!
2006-08-23 13:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her right away. Why wait? If that is how you feel, tell her how you feel. Waiting is stupid and you could regret it all because you are trying to follow some sort of social rule. Just tell her. I am a women, and I respect men who are honest, even when they tell me their feelings, and I don't reciprocate them. I respect that you were honest and had the balls to tell me. And if she is a beotch about it, then she wasn't worth it in the first place and I would tell her that too!
2006-08-23 13:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry! It may backfire. She may think your moving to quickly. I girl can tell by your actions if you have feelings for her without saying a word. Knowing you have feelings for her is not going to make her stay with you if she has no feelings for you. Take your time and allow your relationship to grow.
2006-08-23 13:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you tell her how you have feelings for her, make sure you are friends and trust her, that is the most important thing in a relationship I say what at least another week. good luck!
2006-08-23 13:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see after one week how she is with you and then move in a lil closer after 1 1\2 weeks..and then get more deeper with her by the end of the 2nd week
like make silly promises about being together for ever :) it will make her like you even more then you'll knwo what to do!
2006-08-23 13:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by phvxoui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell hurr right away just like u said u dont want hurr 2 find another boy
2006-08-23 13:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by babi_balla06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long you don't say you're in love with her and want to get married after a week, everything else will be all right.
2006-08-23 13:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by fangstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER. I am 14 and I am really wanting a boy friend. Its better if you tell her sooner than later, trust me!
2006-08-23 13:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by BeckiiShizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋