advice....?

Question

i like this guy who's in my world history class. he's partially home schooled so i dont get to see him alot. he's a sophomore and im a freshman. he's the guy who's really nice and sensitive, into art and music, wears converse, doesn't make fun of anyone type of person and im the preppy, popular, abercrombie wearing type girl. i think i like him and im not sure what to do next. he only takes like two classes a day and i guess doesn't know very many people right now. i kinda want to ask him to a movie or something. but i know it would be really awkward cause we're so different. i dont know alot about him right now cause i just met him two days ago when school started. what do i do next? please give me some advice.

Answer 1

Since you still seem to like him, let's see what we can do!

First of all, there's no hurry. Building on the chemistry is a lot of fun and makes the whole dating thing that much better. Nerve racking, but trust me, it's still part of the fun.

From the description, he sounds like a nice person. Since it's only a few days into school, you might ask his advice on things about the school since most likely you're new to the school this year.

Even if you know the answer, boys (at least boys with manners and/or interest) love to be able to help out. That'll allow you to get to know him while letting him get comfortable talking to you. As he gets more comfortable, so will you!

As you increase your rapport, you can ask how he likes being homeschooled vs. going to your school. Then, from there it'll naturally go into his likes/hobbies/etc.

Watch his body language to gauge his interest. There's plenty of Y!answers on how to tell if he's interested, so you can look those up. If after a week or so, he doesn't ask you out, you can do a casual "date" going to an arcade, or library, or directly to a movie or something.

Believe it or not, as shy as you might be, boys are often even more shy about asking girls out. So, it might be a relief if you do the asking. But give him a chance, or do one of those "just hangin" type things first to build your foundation.

And remember, during this time, relax, enjoy, soak it all in, and have fun!

Answer 2

Cierra, you seem really stuck on this question of how to approach people, especially boys. Because I know you, I would wonder out loud with you if maybe the real question isn't your shyness? You doubt yourself. You worry that you don't measure up. I am glad I know you because it allows me to say that you must not be fooled into these doubts. You are a truly unique, beautiful and engaging person. Be proud and be serene. Life is what you make not what you deserve.

Answer 3

Just ask him to go to a movie.....
Simple as that.....
Bet he says yes......
Maybe you have more in common that you think!