2006-08-23 13:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by luckychockynala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did have a long spell like that do to a wait problem AND did not want to have just casual sex. After a 11 years I got rid of the weight plus some and broke the celebacy.
I did not wait until the 'perfect' someone but I also did not go for the first opportunity of attraction. I went with someone that I felt safe and accepted even though I knew he was not going to be permanent.
I strongly advise that you value you yourself and know that your sexuality is special enough not to give away to the 'undeserving'. Yet, try not to have too much 'anxiety' about the prospect of sex due to it having been so long. Step out more and get involved in community and singles, there are many nice people out there but you have to look. No one is going to come knocking on your door and magically fall in love.
2006-08-23 13:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went 20 years without a sexual relationship. I devoted my life to bringing up my children. Now I'm ready to cut loose!
2006-08-23 20:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are, but that shouldn't encourage not to seek help. Going for that long without intimacy points towards a sexual disorder or social phobia. Not life threatenning but do you want to live a life without sex?
2006-08-23 21:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the circumstance.If your a widow,if you live where the only men around are lousy,like Huson?Or I think more people should follow abstinence.Instead of acting like animals in heat!What happened to morals?Theres nothing wrong with you!
2006-08-23 20:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by laura r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First 10 years of my life I was celibate.
Last 5 years have been very poor...
2006-08-23 20:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a priest? Hey..... I think it is wrong for any religion to deny sex to any human being. All human being should be given unrestricted access to "SEX" as long as it is within certain guidelines laid by each religion. To ban sex from priest, monk etc is morally and logically unwise since it invites other problems such as molestation of boys/girls in church compound etc.
2006-08-23 20:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by jemmie_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but have had gaps of a couple of years.
Believe me, its much easier for a gal to find a guy to have sex than the other way round - so its only you thats stopping you.....
2006-08-23 20:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Thoughtful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you happen to be 10 years old
2006-08-23 21:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Phil-A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fortunately, no. For goodness sake get out there.
2006-08-24 08:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i heard it is very very damaging for men's main organ. it might not work well later when u re older. take care of yourself man
2006-08-24 02:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋