I really like this girl. I just saw her tonight and we talked a bit. Tomarrow I am planning on calling her and asking her to do something with me. I would like something in which we can get to know each other a bit more.
We live very close to each other. I'm thinking maybe a walk.
Girls, if a guy called you and asked to get to know you better, what activity would make you say yes?
And as we are doing this whats the best way to get her to like me(even though i think she does already or so im hoping.)
Girls, What do you want to hear as you are getting to know a guy more?
2006-08-23 13:41:46 · 40 answers · asked by ARt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwww! I think that sounds great, a walk. But do mention its so you two can get to know each other.
Be honest with her, and be yourself! And its really not what I "hear" from a guy that makes me like them its that "feeling" I get from them, like them being them, you can always tell when a jerk is trying to come off as a nice guy. You know?
2006-08-23 13:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just start spending time together. Plan some fun activities. Do something that's exciting like racing each other at the go kart track or take her on a road rally or orienteering. Do not set up some big stage about how you want to get to know her better. That's obvious if you're asking to spend time with her. Do not be a drama king. I want to hear normal getting to know each other conversation. I definately do not think that you should decide what the relationship SHOULD be first and try to make it into that.
Look, be honest. When and if you get to know this girl really well- sshe may not be what you're looking for. Keep it real and emotionally stable.
2006-08-23 13:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by gmpranis1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, a low key activity would probably be best, since you guys don't know each other really well yet. since you live close together, a walk sounds cool, or maybe even a jog if you're the athletic type. If you actually want to go out and do something, maybe going out to eat and finding out what she likes to eat, if she's picky, etc, without being all obvious about it. Or just a movie. But don't make it like a date or anything, make that point clear (like, you wanna hang out or something? get to know each other more.) and go dutch, because she might be intimidated if she thinks you're asking her out so soon. There's really no set way to make her like you because every girl is different. Just make sure you're genuine and a gentleman to her. Make sure that when you talk about yourself, you don't play yourself up so much, because ********* is a turn-off. Be cool, be real. Good luck!
2006-08-23 13:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for one chat her up a bit on the phone, see some activities she may like, it's summer out....go for a walk in a park take her on a picnic if she's into that kinda thing, go to dinner, just chat her up a bit on the phone and find out what she might be into. i mean you wouldn't take a complete girly girl fishing for example. hmm best advise is to think outside the box, what would make you stand out from all the other joe blows that have taken her on a first date, though don't go too extravagant and make her think you are trying too hard that is also a turn off.
2006-08-23 13:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by am i a mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a walk sounds good no matter what the age a woman likes a good conversation!!!! However, I would bring a little cash to maybe buy a soda and a snack or you could do the pinic thing but that depends on if she likes sitting on the grass or what she's wearing too. I hope that it goes well and good luck! Oh yeah and honesty is always the best policy but too much honesty may scare her away! Later
2006-08-23 13:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by symetry48228 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We want the truth! I'm not so sure about taking a walk though, see if she wants to go out for coffee, oh you know what......go out for a banana split.....hiking is good too but I think you should talk more before you meet for anything more encompassing than a nice chat in a public place. If she wants to get to know you better she is going to say yes regardless of the activity!
2006-08-23 13:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A walk sounds great. A walk to get a coffee or coke or piece of pie. Something simple. Save a picnic for a real Date.
Just exude your happiness with life and interest and curiosity. Smile. Look at her. Look in her eyes and smile. Best thing always is to listen to her when she talks to you. Be comfortable with silence, just smile cause your happy to just be with her.
2006-08-23 13:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask us for advice on what to say, because you'll sound scripted. be you're self and relax. After all the girl has a crush on you, not us. So what we would like to hear and etc dont apply to you and her. just be your natural charming self. and she will love to go on a date with you. If you're not sure about where to take her for a date. Dont stress, just take her out for lunch. you can get to know her better, over a nice meal. And a word of advice ? Give her a genuine complement. She fixed her self up for you, don't let it go unnoticed.
2006-08-23 13:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be happy if a boy asked me to do pretty much anything with him. I'd take a walk, see a movie, whatever. Just do what you think is best. As I got to know I guy more, I'd just like to hear that he really likes me, and a bit about his life. Girls don't want you to fiddle around. They just want you to say it.
2006-08-23 13:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by birdfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A walk would be nice, you could always go with the classic of watching a movie at your place (during the day)
To get her to like you... be yourself, be respectful, flirt w/ her, be her friend.
I would want to hear, that we have a lot of common (but only if we actually did) and that he respected me as a person, and liked my personality.
GOOD LUCK. You seem to be doin this the right way, so good job. =)
2006-08-23 13:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋