Suppose we've just started dating. As is appropriate in the course of getting to know each other, we decide to exchange summaries of our past relationships. I tell you I'm almost 32 and have never experienced reciprocal adult love, that my longest relationship was for 1.5 years back in college and that I've never been engaged, married or lived with a boyfriend. What would be your impression?
2006-08-23 13:45:10 · 17 answers · asked by miguelitabonita 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would consider it rather unusual and would be cautious about getting involved with you, though it is not by any means a disqualification.
2006-08-23 13:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you have made some bad romantic choices or are a little inexperienced in longterm relationships. However since you are now in your 30's you may be looking for a longterm relationship and possibly marriage. But, and I'm assuming that you haven't been dating that long with this person, since you are at the stage where you are getting into dating history maybe you should be looking at his dating history too and not over guessing your own.
2006-08-23 20:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by symetry48228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just told me you have a short resume when it comes to relationship experience. Which makes you a novice and that you probably lack romantic maturity.
Also, it'd be one think if you were 18 or even 22. I'd be quite alarmed that you are so old (32 !!!) to be lacking in this area. I'd think maybe you aren't good at relationships or communicating or being open with people.
2006-08-23 20:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all it wouldn't be on my top priority list to tell someone bad things first (if you consider that to be bad) I would wait until I got to know the person better before letting them in like that, so that I knew that they wouldn't judge me. As for your situation, there is nothing wrong with being 32 and never having been married, engaged, lived with someone....etc., who cares. They either like you for you or they don't. Don't worry so much!
2006-08-23 20:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you haven't found the right person...It doesn't make you a weird person or anything like that. There are approximately 6.5 billion people in this world, it may take a while but you're bound to find someone!
2006-08-23 20:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you have alot to learn - in long term relations there is alot of giving and taking. It doesn't sound like you've experienced that - but..... never too late to start - I would say your inexperienced in the romance game, that's all.
Good luck in your future relations.
2006-08-23 20:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice girl! Probably to busy to get involved with anyone for a while. Must have a good career.
2006-08-23 20:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are a very independent, intelligent and choosy woman. And that you would deserve, if you were to make a commitment, to be with a man who was not threatened by any of these qualities.
2006-08-23 20:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are a decent person waiting for the right guy to come along.
2006-08-23 20:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Right might come one of these days. I'm staying single I'm allergic to men right now. LOL
2006-08-23 20:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Christy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋