Background info: I'm 22, my boyfriend is 28. About a month ago my boyfriend of over a year kissed another girl. He admitted it immediately and made it clear that he was trying to figure out if we have a future - he had to see if he really loved me. Kissing her destroyed him and made him depressed because he thought he'd ruined things with me. The fate of our relationship was placed entirely in my hands. I forgave him because I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him.
The Problem: I can't forget what happened. Whenever he doesn't call me at a usual time or his band practice runs late or ANYTHING, I get scared. Believe me, I'm no jealous girlfriend, I love his friends & don't keep him from hanging out with them &doing what he wants. Still, it's always nagging in the back of my head that something could happen again. I want to eventually marry this man. How do I forget? (BTW, he told me that he never expects me to forgive/forget what he did but I want to)
2006-08-22
10:20:18
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