My best friend's boyfriend likes me and asked me out to the movies. He's really cute but if i say yes to him then my best friend will hate me and i love her so what should i do please help me
2006-08-22 10:28:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dang it.....I cannot believe you are even thinking about going out with this makebait.
(1) He is in a relationship with your best friend, and is asking you out.....what does this tell you about his character???? Sounds like a K-Fed to meee.
(2) This is your best friend we are talking about. Most people are lucky if they only have three best friends in their entire lives. Are you willing to destroy what you have with her, by stepping out on the town with Her Boyfriend??? If so, what does that say about you?????
Weary sigh. The word is full of cute guys, and while most cute guys are full of themselves, a few are quite nice. Leave the cute K-Fed boyfriend to your friend, and find one of your own, one of the few :)
Another thing....you can tell your friend what her boyfriend did, but don't be surprised if she does not believe you, and says you are just jealous...you would probably say the same thing if the positions were reversed and you were in her sneakers.
Good luck to you sweetie.
Growing up is hard.
2006-08-22 11:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Matilda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to date your best friend's boyfriend.....no matter how cute he is. Especially if you want to keep your best friend! Boyfriends come and go, and there are a whole lot of cute ones out there.....but best friends are forever, kinda like sisters.
2006-08-22 10:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even asking means that you have truly considered going out with this guy. You really need to check yourself and remember KARMA, for what goes around will surely come back around. There are some things that you just don't do, this is one of them.
2006-08-22 11:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you LOVE this guy.... think about this "guys.... a lot!.... friends.... VERY FEW!". Do you this guy is worthy ENOUGH to loose your friend? If you said yes.... keep in mind that if he did this to his NOW-Girlfriend... he will do it to you in the future.
If you would like to be nice and keep him as a friend, then tell him that you both need to respect YOUR friend. She does not deserve this. If he disagrees, or does not respect it, then I would suggest for you to have a conversation with yuor friend and both of you confront him.
2006-08-22 10:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your acting as though your going to die if you dont go out with this guy. I cant believe your even thinking about what you should do. Tell him he's jerk for even asking you and go on with your life. Its amazing how one guy can make you think about d*cking your friend over. That's why I dont really enjoy girl friendships.
2006-08-22 10:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really asking this?? she is your best friend... you shouldn't do that to her... i doubt she would to that to you... friends are forever... boys are what ever... you shouldnt go out with him, and you should tell your friend, unless there is a reason for him liking you... have you been flirting with him?? or giving hints?? cause if you did... you did this to yourself..ALSO why would YOU want to go out with HIM... it dosent bother you even a little bit that he would do that to your best friend?? dosent he know how tight you two are??what makes you think he wouldnt do that to you?? good luck
2006-08-22 10:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved and respected your "best friend" you wouldn't be asking this question! Tell her so she can dump the creep!
2006-08-22 10:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy to get lost. its hard to get best friends right away, but u can always get another guy to like u
2006-08-22 10:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by kmm333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you value your friend. guys are a dime a dozen. there are more cute guys out there than there are best friends
2006-08-22 10:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋