Say your at a party or something and you just happen to glance over and see a girl looking back at you. Now this girl is totally not your type, because you can already tell that she is different from you in almost everyway. But you look again and notice that shes giving you a kind smile. Big deal right?
Now imagine that you see this girl again sometime later on and she just happens to try to make conversation with you. What makes you notice her and want to get to know her more, EVEN THOUGH this girl is NOT the kind of girl you would normally go for?
2006-08-22 10:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that she is giving you attention is a real inflation to the ego! If she is not your type, ask yourself why. If the answer is stupid, take a chance.
2006-08-22 10:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex! OK, kidding aside, sometimes opposites attract. You have to define where are the differences. If they're differences in how you act, or your physical condition, how you dress, then it might be a good thing.
If the differences are in lifestyles, then I think that might be a problem, even if both parties 'seems' sooo alike. If one is looking for a lifestyle with a nice house in the suburbs, seeing family on the weekend, let's wake up early to jog and walk in the woods, hey, why rush? and the other is let's get a loft downtown, lets see where's the next party, let's go disco, etc., then it could lead to frustration when one wants the other to comply to his/her wishes.
What turns me on is smart conversation, open mind, trust able, easy to smile.
2006-08-22 17:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is called chemistry dude and I would follow your impulse to get to know that girl. You can never tell what will happen and you could have some wild times with her, and maybe find her to be an iportant part of your life. Who knows!
2006-08-22 17:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all has to deal with timing. i met and married a woman as you describe. after 10 years of marriage and 2 kids, we still have our differences, but it is fun to talk with each other and still get to know one another.
2006-08-22 17:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hi and start a conversation with us. will notice u cause we dont get too many girls with the guts to talk to us
2006-08-22 17:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by slain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up, the guy doesnt like u. go look for someone who is interested in u also. like this ur in for a major dissapointment.
2006-08-22 17:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by bencilius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go For It!
You never know unless you try.
2006-08-22 17:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-08-22 17:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing else I would reach out as a friend to her, we all need friends.
2006-08-22 17:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you know she is not right for you if you dont try thing you will neverknow about life an it up or down / jerry
2006-08-22 17:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋