I have a crush on this boy, and we both liked eachother last year, but now that i went out with his bestfriend its like he hates me. I broke up with his bestfriend yesterday, and today was our first day of school, when i went up to my crush he really dident talk to me and he seems mad at me. I really reallly like this boy, please help me, i dont want him to hate me any more........
2006-08-22 10:34:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think thats like one of the "Cardinal Rules" , you don't date an ex's friend. Sorry
2006-08-22 10:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by arizonakellie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright i'm gonna lay it out straight for you.You hurt him. Prolly bad enough that you should either give up or find a way to apologize.
You dated his best friend!
Thats like a dating 101 no no.
You betrayed him. Deal with it.
He might never really get over it. Somehow things from high school still hint in on life.
Somehow I doubt he's gonna forget that you two liked each other and you went out with his best friend. I'd prolly smack ya if i could girl.
If you wanna make ammends realize that what ya did was wrong and apologize for hurting him. Sometimes ya gotta chalk up your pride.
If he doesnt wanna be with you then you're just gonna have to accept that and move on from today.
2006-08-22 10:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that he hates you, going for his best friend is pretty low if you knew that he liked you. It's low of his friend too.
There's not much you can do to make it better. Say you're sorry, but don't expect much from it. He probably feels like he's leftovers and his best friend is the main course. A boy's ego is a fragile thing, they don't like to feel slighted.
You have to give him time. You definitely hurt him pretty bad. If he wants to give you another go, he'll let you know. But really, there's not much you can do.
2006-08-22 10:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by koala988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a pretty girl. Why don't you get smarter and you will have a brain to go with your face. Then you will realize you can't be foolin with a boys heart. But in a few years when you mature, you will realize that crushes are what girls have and love is what adults have, so don't worry about him, just worry about classes and being classy.
2006-08-22 10:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you liked him so much and was crushing on him and everything and you knew he kinda liked you too then why did you go out with his best friend. Now he feels that you are off limits because his friend has already dated you. You messed it up for yourself this time girlfriend. Just know better next time and move on
2006-08-22 10:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by sha scrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from boys, focus on your education at this time, Boys will always be there. Why do you want to jump from one friend to another, do you want to develop a reputation for yourself? slow down a bit.
2006-08-22 10:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't like him if you went out with his friend - either you'd go out with him, or go out with nobody. If this is the case you will obviously be over him very quickly.
2006-08-22 10:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mordent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your off limits to him if his best friend was going out with you. he would have to be prepared to throw away his friendship if he actually went out with you or was even social with you.
2006-08-22 10:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by hotscott2u79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing that can be done.
You were with his best friend. and if he is a guy worth having he would not stab his best friend.
Ironic.
2006-08-22 10:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Winter_Decay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill tell you what i tell every girl with boy problems this is what i did and it helped me get over the pain mine left me with ......F*ck his brother, charge bf for stalking you then invite bf over to "work things out" tell him about brother, call cops have them see hews still stalking you and have him sent away for 2 years helped me getting over the anger
2006-08-22 10:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋