i am still a virgin and i am a freshman in high school should i lose it or wait for the right moment
2006-08-22 10:29:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that is considered weird, then it's a good kind of weird. Losing your virginity just for the sake of losing it is akin to jumping off a cliff just to see if you'll land on your feet or your head. Either way, the result is not good. Don't do it until you are absolutely sure that it is what YOU want. When you do, make sure you are protected against pregnancy and STD's. Once you have, remain selective about who, where, when and how often. It can be so easy to cheapen yourself.
2006-08-22 10:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you wait for the Right Time. and the right Guy/Girl. you should be happy about being a virgin i been with my bf for 9 month and im still a virgin, i love him and he love me we are waiting for a good time we are 15 and 16, So we are waiting until we are older
2006-08-22 10:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by AloneFur 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess the world has changed since I was your age. I can't imagine how being a virgin makes you "weird." You are still quite young. You will have many opporunities to get lucky. When the time is right and you meet the right girl it will happen. Until then, you are not weird.
2006-08-22 10:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should wait for the right moment don't go losing your
virginity because every one has.
2006-08-22 11:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
COOL is virgin TILL MARRIAGE! FOOL is lose your virginity to some wolf who doesn't REALLY love you! Sex belongs in ONE place......within the bounds of HOLY MATRIMONY! Fornication is sin! God's word says so! YOU are the normal one, still being a virgin and REMAINING SO till your wedding night! The only "wierd" ones are those who DON'T do that, but even worse, those who encourage someone like you to be as FOOLISH as they are! Girl, don't let ANYONE rob you of one of God's most precious gifts to you! He made you FOR YOUR HUSBAND! Do yourself AND HIM and really BIG favour and SAVE YOURSELF A WHOLE LOT OF TROUBLE AND PAIN! Wait till that "special day". It will be WORTH IT! You WON'T regret it, but you WILL if you give in to the devil and this wicked world that knows NOTHING of the TRUE joys of SEXUAL FREEDOM! This world's version of being "sexually liberated" is only BONDAGE, and I mean SLAVERY! Follow Jesus Christ and you'll NEVER go wrong! The Bible says your body was "not made for fornication, but for THE LORD." Trust me, if you obey God on this,you'll be BLESSED! But if you GIVE IN TO THE PRESSURE, you'll regret it for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE! Besides, you are WAY TOO YOUNG to even be THINKING about such things! Stay a "little girl" as long as possible! Don't grow up too fast! Enjoy life! And sex outside marriage will NOT afford you to do so! God made you for HIS pleasure, NOT YOURS or some SELFISH BOY'S! One more thing: a boy or man who wants to have sex with you that you're NOT MARRIED TO is just plain SELFISH! Don't be fooled! Just because "everyone's doing it" (which is NOT true anyway!), that does NOT make it RIGHT!
2006-08-22 10:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people always say wait for the right person,blaa blaa blaa. lets get real, the first time is always sh*t. ok if you're in a good relationship it will be less embarrassing when you dont know what to do but losing it to a stranger is good coz you wont have to see them again! either way make sure you use protection and have fun!!!
2006-08-22 10:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by hellinbear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be dumb. It's an important thing, you can't just give it to anybody. Forget your age and what everyone else is doing, give it up only when you're completely ready or you'll regret it for the rest of your life!
Don't give in to the pressures, honestly. When it's right you'll know.
2006-08-22 10:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by koala988 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no dude, seriously. WAIT! dont do it till you can fully except all the consequences if something gose wrong. im not just talking about motherhood but also stds.no matter how careful you are there could still be a mishap.
2006-08-22 12:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by dizzogurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with that Robert guy. If you're wanting to get married one day then save it till then and TRUST ME your guy will be...gosh I don't even know how to say it...incredibly turned on. You'll have nothing to regret and you won't be comparing him to others or any of that. You don't want that crap on your wedding night. Any guy that tries to get some from you now is not going to stay for long. And you're not weird, its admirable.
2006-08-22 10:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by downabbyroad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the freshmen in my school have ever lost it yet, its totally normal, believe me, you should prolly lose it about 18-20
2006-08-22 10:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Alex J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋