Singles & Dating - 7 August 2006

My boyfriend and I are going through some mess right now. I feel as though he puts his baby mama's happiness before mine. Keep in mind this has nothing to do w/ their daughter. Here are some examples:
1. It is disrespectful for me to come over when she is there (it is his moms home) but not disrespectful that they share the same bed (she stays there cause she is too ashamed to go back home to mommy (just turned 18)).
2. He is moving out and she is coming w/ him and of course they are going to share the same bed
3. He is way to busy worrying about what she is doing and who she is with.
4.Has left me at his friends house with no word of where he is going but 1 hour later he calls me on the cell to tell me that she is gone you can come over. by that time i was at the gas station on my way back home.
I have repeatedly tried telling him how I feel but his response is always negative or just making lame excuses to justify the situation.there is more but too much to type serious posts

2006-08-07 07:49:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started seeing a guy about a month ago. Lately I've noticed I do a lot for him (mostly without his asking) and I think it may be bothering him, as if i'm putting on a show or maybe hurting his pride.. I need thoughts on this.
some thing's that i've done/do. I always drive to see him, and never he to I, most of this is because I live with a roommate and he's alone, but its still a 30-45 min drive. I bought him a small gift on a whim, bought him some food a few times while we're out and he mentions he's a bit hungry, and the other night he had to buy meds for his brother so couldn't afford the date we were going on so I paid.. something he did tell me was weird for him, and made him feel a little guilty. I also baby sat his dog for him while his apt. was getting some maintence.

Should I stop doing so much for him? Not stop completely but enough so he doesn't think i'm trying to fool him? Any ideas anyone? I really am just the kind of person to go out of my way for others.

2006-08-07 07:48:22 · 3 answers · asked by attila 6

my will to excel has gone flying out the window. My will to learn new things is gone. The reason behind these things is because nothing is going right for me. There is a certain amount of pain and suffering a person can handle,, and i am on the edge.
If i cant experience the things that evewryone else at this school gets to experience, then the will too succeed will disappear, which has already happened.

2006-08-07 07:48:14 · 1 answers · asked by theone 2

2006-08-07 07:48:01 · 7 answers · asked by benjamin 2

there is this guy I like and I am almost positive he likes me back... there is no way I could ask him out because Im too shy. And he's never asked a girl out in his life ... they ve all asked him. Could he not be asking because he doesnt think I like him or what?

2006-08-07 07:46:28 · 3 answers · asked by gbpackerbacker4 2

hey guys, i have a problem, can u help?i like this guy matt, he goes 2 my church and is really sweet. i also like a guy lewis, he goes 2 my skool. this past year, i have been flirting and hanging out with each. i only saw matt 2x's a week and i saw lewis 5x's a week. i think that they are bith right 4 me but i have some problems.1. lewis said he doesnt like me that way. but my friends have talked 2 his friends and his friends are like 95% sure that he does.2. matt lately hasnt been talking 2 me. not avoiding me, just not talking to me.3. lewis has been avoiding me ever since he told me. im afraid that next year, any classes we have 2gether will b really awkward, if i try and talk 2 him more.4. matt and i are in sunday skool 2 gether and we r the only 1's in our class so we have 2 talk but he seems reluctant.wut should i do?, should i tell them how i feel? should i leave it alone? help!

2006-08-07 07:45:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 32 years old male ....5 8" tall

2006-08-07 07:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by polestar 1

2006-08-07 07:44:37 · 5 answers · asked by Bowwow's Baby 1

2006-08-07 07:43:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 07:43:33 · 2 answers · asked by bLAh?_mickey<3 2

do they like women to cry while having sex does this make them feel manly

2006-08-07 07:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If we eliminate all the n i g g e rs we will have no more promblems but save the woman I have a personal issue with those n i g g a b i t c h es. I AM A BLACK MAN WHO HATES NI GG ERS

2006-08-07 07:41:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy use to like me he told me he liked me couple times a couple months ago, i dont know if he still likes me, n he know that i like him, duno if he know that i still likes him.(we are friends). he was tellin me about this gitl we both know n we both were friends with. he was tellin me that he told her that he doesn't like her and he doesnt want to be with her, and then he said " i dont want a girlfriend right now". "unless i find the right one". and then later before i went home. he gave me a big hug and then he squeezed me. what is suppose to mean? he doesnt want a girl-friend or he likes me but still thinkin if iam the right one?

2006-08-07 07:40:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had a two year relatioship~lived together and everything~this past week, we decided to move out and live on our own~as I was packing, it didn't seem to affect him at all that I was leaving~it is like he had no feeling for our two years that are now lost~it was the nicest breakup I have ever had~we didn't fight or anything~but it just seemed to me as if it didn't matter to him at all~ Do guys have any feelings at all???? For anything???? How do break ups affect men????

2006-08-07 07:39:58 · 18 answers · asked by click 3

Any body can answer me if you want to.

2006-08-07 07:39:06 · 23 answers · asked by damilare s 1

Like im a very sweet guy, i have alott of friends that are girls but i never can seem to make my friends my girlfriends. Or even like new girls that i meet i become friends with them never serious. So i was wondering if someone can point me into the right direction on how to talk smooth you know what im saying? Thankss

2006-08-07 07:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a really attractive woman (no lie I get about 30 complements a day) but that is the problem. I have a really curvy body without looking fat. I can easily fit into the video chick look, but I do not get the right attention. I get dates, but all they want is one thing. Now when I dress conservative, I get the broke men thinking they are getting a sugar mamma. when I dress normal. a hi, here or there but no actual proposals for a date. I want to know. what type of dress would make you want to talk to a women that would make you want to get to know her and not primarialy want to screw her.??

2006-08-07 07:36:55 · 14 answers · asked by cinnamon43212002 1

would you be ok with your parents looking for a boy for you?

2006-08-07 07:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need to know where do you place your hand when you are kissing your partener?

2006-08-07 07:35:28 · 19 answers · asked by ¤Forever¤ 3

2006-08-07 07:35:25 · 7 answers · asked by I-C-U 5

Im 16 and ive had four boyfriends..not to bad..But everyone of them "boys" has cheated on me. All for various reasons and everytime i meet someone new its the same exact thing. An attractive guy, who is a "bad boy" and we end "going out" after a cpuple weeks i either catch them in the act or recive a voice mail/txt/email/offline...or what ever other form of communication there is. Anyway what im asking i guess, is how (if its even possible) do i break the mold and get out of the wanting to date a bad boy phase?

2006-08-07 07:35:05 · 46 answers · asked by xemoxheartx 1

hey if u cant beat them join them so start dressing slutty lower your standers

2006-08-07 07:34:08 · 8 answers · asked by stan rage 1

2006-08-07 07:31:14 · 10 answers · asked by polestar 1

if someone likes you but doesnt find the time for you what would you do and why?

2006-08-07 07:31:00 · 6 answers · asked by theguru_10 2

2006-08-07 07:30:49 · 8 answers · asked by cherries_pooh07 1

I am skinny, young, and sexy, but do guys dig the blonde hair? This is for guys only!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-07 07:29:54 · 26 answers · asked by tiny_dancer 1

2006-08-07 07:29:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend go to different schools. we always say i love you more. im trying to prove to him that i love him more. its kinda like a competition that we have. wat are some ways that i could show him that i love him more than he loves me?

2006-08-07 07:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by soccer star 2

2006-08-07 07:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by .::Princess::. 1

For those of you already seeing someone, do you find yourself flirting at times? Maybe you mean no more than to just be friendly or you really want to cash in. Maybe you're seeing if you still got it or figure you'll make their day. Maybe you don't even realize it until someone points it out to you.

So I pose my question: Do you flirt, how do you flirt, and do you find yourself flirting more now or before you got together with your partner?

2006-08-07 07:28:12 · 3 answers · asked by Zoer 5