Like im a very sweet guy, i have alott of friends that are girls but i never can seem to make my friends my girlfriends. Or even like new girls that i meet i become friends with them never serious. So i was wondering if someone can point me into the right direction on how to talk smooth you know what im saying? Thankss
2006-08-07 07:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And im not after sexual intercourse or anything, i just want to have a strong relationship =]
2006-08-07 07:44:50 · update #1
wen u js meet a girl ask if they're seein anyone or ask if u can take em out someday. ask for their number so u could call em later. as for ur friends, u can tell em u would like to take em out one day, as a date
2006-08-07 07:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by shorty 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're being too friend-ish when you first meet a girl. Do you hang out with a group of friends or a lot of your other girl friends when you first hang out with the girl you want to date?? That might give her the impression that you aren't looking for a relationship. You should start the relationship off with a real one-on-one date (dinner, movie, etc.) This might get the girl to realize that you are looking for a relationship and not just another friend.
2006-08-07 07:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by bubabe_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lots of female friends too, and my gf was one of them before. The more time we spent together the more we saw that we should move up and now here we are still together almost 2 years later. My advice? find someone who you can really connect with and spend as much time getting to know them and going out with them as you can without being weird. If they see the same thing in you as you see in them it'll just happen, there's no way to smoothtalk a girl into a serious relationship, there's just chemistry.
2006-08-07 08:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Squall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice isn't really an icebreaker for women. You need to be able to grab their attention. Joking around with them is number one on the list of icebreakers. You can poke fun at them, at yourself or at things around you; just make sure the jokes aren't anything to serious. Once you've broken the ice though, being nice is the way to keep her. Seriously, women like guys that can make them laugh. :)
2006-08-07 07:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kookiemon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and in anyway if you are showing signs of just wantin apiece of --- then that usually is a turn off . Also it helps sometimes to not try to cover up the real you.
2006-08-07 07:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's doubtful that it's what you are saying. You might just want to hold fast to those friendships and they might develope into something more.
2006-08-07 07:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fall and trip. then act in pain. if a girl "cares" play it off act a little hurt and start a convo. works
2006-08-07 07:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and if you like a girl, tell her. you must be a nice guy if you have all those girls who are friends.
2006-08-07 07:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be yourself and stop trying so hard to impress people.
2006-08-07 07:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by frankiegirl1122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that you care about her. you dont have to come out and say it, just with nice jestures.
2006-08-07 07:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋