does the way I dress bring a certain type of man to me??

Question

I'm a really attractive woman (no lie I get about 30 complements a day) but that is the problem. I have a really curvy body without looking fat. I can easily fit into the video chick look, but I do not get the right attention. I get dates, but all they want is one thing. Now when I dress conservative, I get the broke men thinking they are getting a sugar mamma. when I dress normal. a hi, here or there but no actual proposals for a date. I want to know. what type of dress would make you want to talk to a women that would make you want to get to know her and not primarialy want to screw her.??

Answer 1

Haha if you get a good answer to this forward it to me bc I think this is an epidemic.

Answer 2

Most of these answers sound like they are blaming YOU for the lack of respectable men in the world. That last answer from the Jesus freak (The Church of Latter Day Saints) cracked me up and did you notice he didn't say much about how "young men should dress".
You should dress for yourself and not for some man. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in and consider the setting. For example don't wear a low cut gown to the library in the middle of winter.
Clothing should be comfortable, practical and weather appropriate. If you don't feel comfortable or if it doesn't look good on your body type don't wear it. Men in the fashion industry have tried to convince us to purchase the "hot near item" because everyone is wearing it. Create your own style and hopefully the right type of man will flock to you.
Now onto dating, don't go out with someone right away. He'll slip up in his speech/attitude soon enough. You'll save a lot of time by listening and observing behaviour patterns. This will allow you to weed out the bad ones and there will be a LOT of bad ones. It may take some time to get to the total package.
Good luck

Answer 3

All men want that one thing. Even if it isn't their primary goal, they still want it. The best thing to do, is to figure out what a guy you like does, and go to a place where that happens. If you want a fit guy, go to the gym. Like a guy with morals and family values? Shop around the church. If you're tired of guys just looking to score, spend less time in bars.

While the way a woman presents herself certainly has an effect on me, it's really only worth a long look. I'll watch her for a minute or so for things like how aware of her surroundings she is, how she reacts to what's happening around her. That's mostly in the eyes, what she chooses to look at and for how long. When I do talk to her, I watch for things like a sense of humor, not only if she's funny but if she can understand a joke. I'm likely to chat a girl up for about an hour, tops. It's a funny sort of interview that everyone does, and you can gleam a lot of information from people in small talk. What they are and aren't willing to talk about with a stranger matters. Usually the one of the first things a girl asks about is my job. Sometimes just to make sure I have one, other times to see how much I make. That's all in the body language. I'm likely to do the same, first to make sure that she works, and second because it can be an interesting topic. If it's obvious that she likes her job, then she'll be really happy to talk about that. If she doesn't like her job, it's easy to make fun of all the common things that go wrong in offices, stores, factories, warehouses, or where ever she works.

In other words, the way a girl is dressed is just what she's willing to show. That's valuable information, but not actually trustworthy.

Answer 4

Dress normal, when you do get a proposal for a date, it'll likely be because that person is attracted to you in more than just the sexual attraction, it may take time though cause most males are usually just looking for a quick bump. Wait it out and the type of guy you're looking for will come around.

Answer 5

Dress the way you want. If you dress trashy,then you will attract trashy men, try to dress more feminine like long skirts and dresses. I'm not saying church attire, but really nice men like women that look classy but sexy at the same time. And remember, be yourself-don't try to hard and the right guy will come along!

Answer 6

Sounds like your just looking for attention not a man. A real man who has potential aren't just thinking about how you look (even though it is important) but also how you present yourself. No decent man who truly respects you is going to go out with you with the intention of a real relationship, if your in video girl gear all the time. A good man is hard to find so he's not going to be one of those random guys trying to holla at you on the street.

Answer 7

Dress in clean, modest clothes; in other words, something hygenic that, at the same time, doesn't so much as show your upper legs (?) or have a low neckline or is form-fitting.

"Immodest clothing includes short shorts, tight pants, and other revealing attire. Young women should refrain from wearing off-the-shoulder, low-cut, or revealing clothes. Young men should similarly maintain modesty in their dress. All should avoid tight fitting or revealing clothes and extremes in clothing and appearance."[1]

Unfortunately, this is not foolproof. It should be something of an improvement, though.

Answer 8

When you're really good looking, it's hard because you're always going to attract guys who just want sex. The best thing to do is simply be yourself - dress the way you want to - and just hope for the best. If you try too hard, you will always be disappointed.

Answer 9

To answer your question : Yes, if you dress like a complete slut, for example, you'll get guys looking for one night stands flocking to you. If you're looking for someone to pay attention to you for the RIGHT reasons, cover up and, if you've got a brain, use it. TRY HAVING AN INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION WITH A MAN FOR CHRIST'S SAKE.

Answer 10

Just be yourself and dress however you feel comfortable. Eventually a man of substance will come along.