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there is this guy I like and I am almost positive he likes me back... there is no way I could ask him out because Im too shy. And he's never asked a girl out in his life ... they ve all asked him. Could he not be asking because he doesnt think I like him or what?

2006-08-07 07:46:28 · 3 answers · asked by gbpackerbacker4 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

And Ive never had a boyfriend therefore Ive never asked anyone out either.

2006-08-07 07:47:56 · update #1

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Why not work up to the date...ask him for help on some homework, or maybe carrying something heavy for you, etc. Ask him about what interests him and maybe you'll find something in common that you can both enjoy (slot car racing? punk rock band? basketball? swimming?). It's easier to ask someone out if you know its something you both like.

2006-08-07 08:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0 0

Well i do have this rule that i dont ask out boys! But i also have a guy that i like and hes not the kind that would just ask out some girl! I have this feeling that he likes me and that i like him! And we were ganna meet at a Tractor Pull on Friday nite i saw him but was way to nervous to say anything because he was with his really hot cousin tat i had a crush on! But heres hat i would do go for it if you think that there could be any thing between you dont just wait for him to come to you because he could be shy so if this is what you want dont wait it out until its to late. I hope it will help with your relationship and help you getout of your shy stage! And if hes a farmer and a hot football player all in one they wont come long and they re really nice!

2006-08-07 15:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie R. 2 · 0 0

Why don't you try asking him if he ahd a few of his friends want to go to (filll in the blank) with you and a few of your friends? Maybe a group outing will ease both of your tension. Yout wo can pair up and wander off and get to know each other better....
Try : a school sport game, a coffee shop, Border's, the mall, the gym, the beach, a party, a pool hall, anywhere groups go together. Quit worrying how you come off to him (it hides your personality) and start showing that you are interested in getting to know him. Ask him stuff, and get him talking about himself. Ask him for his help with your homework, meet at the library or Border's. He will like being around you if he feels important, admired, impressive, appreciated, interesting, and engaging. Whatever you do, don't put out to try to make him like you. He may try to get some, because guys test the waters like that, but if you do put out , you will look desperate. Desparation is unattractive. You have a many other redeeming qualities to share with someone.
Have Fun!

2006-08-07 15:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0 0

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