would you be ok with your parents looking for a boy for you?
2006-08-07 07:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't see how that could ever work, long term
2006-08-07 07:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are totally busy with your career and also intend to pursue it in future without any hinderance, you may not require to get married at all. Clarify this aspect to your parents and if they still insist and try to go ahead, talk directly to the would-be groom/his family members regarding your stand. Both arranged and love marriages have their plus and minus points respectively.In case of love marriages, because both the parties are under intense emotion of love; they tend to over look the minute points, which may be practical and may crop up later as big differences affecting relationship. In arranged marriages no such emotion is involved and every point can be discussed.So, first think about how you would like your future to be.
2006-08-11 13:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by rks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes arranged marriage is the only one option left because you it is your love marriage you will be decieving your love but when it is arranged the partner will be having blank ideas and opinions on you and she may get acoustomed to you.
better you discuss with your would be about your aims and goals and how you prefer your career well before your marriage as i can say that (WITH MY OWN EXAMPLE - MY WIFE LIKES TO BE LEFT ALONE AND WANT ME TO JUST CALL ONCE A DAY - ALL IT IS ENOUGH FOR HER BUT NOT FOR ME) I
I wish you may get a partner like this.
2006-08-07 20:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by raghu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage as well as love marriage can be done. If you're in love with someone then you can inform about it to your parents. If you're not in love, then your parents will select few boys for you, and then you have to decide the best among them.
2006-08-08 10:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tanveer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish they were all arranged marriages~just think about it~if it was left to our parents to find someone for us to be compatible with~we wouldn't have to go through all the heart aches~trying to find that special someone~I have had WAY to many breakups and heart aches to keep do this S**T again~I am 29 years old and just lost another two year relationship~IF I would have left it for my parents to find Mr. Right~I wouldn't have as many broken relationships left behind me~and now a days~OMG~finding someone is horrible~they are all GAY or MARRIED~ only the dumb asses left to choose from~and I have gotten out of the habit of being single~I was fine before~I knew how to be single, I did it for six years and was very happy~then SLAP the idiot love bug had to bite me in the a*s~now I have lost my two year love, just to, what, try to deal with all this all over again~I keep asking my parents to find me someone~but they want to stay out of it now~YES~I would love to have arranged marriage~
2006-08-07 14:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by click 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you're too busy with a career, then don't get married. Marriage isn't mandatory.
2006-08-07 15:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by grrandram 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Only you know who is best for you. Why would you want someone else telling you who to marry? Plus, marriage is not a shopping trip and it should be a mutual agreement and union.
2006-08-07 14:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by VOLLEYBALLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are totally into your career, you don't need to be married.
2006-08-07 14:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be ok w/ them introducing me to someone but no setting up a marriage
2006-08-07 14:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never I'd rather be single until I have a time to look then be set up by my parents
2006-08-07 14:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋