Singles & Dating - 18 July 2006

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me a few weeks ago in a very cruel and devestating way. I'm still reeling from such a surprise. However, I'm starting to feel a little used. For all those two years she was my whole live, she wanted to be with me all the time, I dedicated myself to her, listened to her when she needed to talk, spent time with her, spent my money on her, loved her and tried to be everything she deserved.

She was very needy and clung on to me and that made me feel special but she never actually asked me how MY day was, to listen to me when I had to vent any frustrations. This obviously lead to arguments, she wouldn't even let me walk away to cold down (i was abadoning her), plus the normal fights people have, I always made sure to talk to her afterward and straighten everything up.

We talked marriage and on the day I was to propose, she comes home with some guy and a van and won't talk to me anymore at all. I still love her and don't want to just give it up

2006-07-18 02:14:00 · 2 answers · asked by Karce 4

I mean, what do you actually first notice how attractive the opposite sex is, is it by their eyes? Or......

2006-07-18 02:10:16 · 17 answers · asked by sabrynarox 3

how would you yourself show your wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend how much you love them need and want them and what they mean to you in a silent way without words what would you do and how would you do it

2006-07-18 02:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i thank yall for answering my questions

2006-07-18 02:07:52 · 21 answers · asked by the biggest prep 1

2006-07-18 02:05:45 · 3 answers · asked by flashank 1

He tells me that he hasn't felt so happy before like with me and that finally he isready for a serious/ real relationship. I just have so many doubts cause of his past. What should I do?

2006-07-18 02:05:39 · 6 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1

i think there is a chemistry between my uncle's wife and me. she likes hanging around with me. some of her actions really are weird. i think she also does. for axample, she asked me to check wat size her tracksuit is sometime when we went shoping,to do this i had to check on the sticker attached to it by putting my hand on her upper butt, which involves sliding my hand in her pants just above her bumcrack.. i dont know wat to do if she does one of her antics next time. blokes plz adivice. dis is very complicated. iam 22

2006-07-18 02:02:07 · 14 answers · asked by kau la poo 2

My guy friends always tell me my bf a play like just playing around....but latly ive just been talking 2 my friends bout him other den my guy friends.....
see we he txts mem he says stuff like"hey babe what u up 2?? bla bla bla i love u soon muchly xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxo mwa mwa mwa u mean the world 2 me" yess with all then x's and o's.... but its werid cos he did that b4 we were goin out...and he dose it 2 evey other girl as well like my bestey (wen he wwas flirting with her once) maybe this time my guy friends r tell the truth like they was hiting somthing?? i donno they told me b4 i was with him......
it sacres me cos he has broking up with all of his girlfrieds in evey way possible.... i.e phone,txt,msn,other pplz ext

is this me freaking out or not??
needd help ASAP!!

2006-07-18 02:00:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a man is in a relationship with a woman for only about a couple of months or so, why does she insist that he LOVE and TRUST her undoubtedly. Surely the man should not put all his eggs in one basket and risk getting hurt by getting cheated on. You should love her, but always be WEARY!!

2006-07-18 02:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I meet him three moths before by chance then we agree to be friends then after we see each other for a week he said that he likes me and he call me 4 times a day every day and then when one day he said he loves me and I didn’t ay any thing but this days I think I fall in love with him and I told him I love him then when he be sure that I love him / may be this is the reason / he totally changes he call me only once a day and we didn’t tolk much I want to meet him but he say I am busy.

2006-07-18 02:00:01 · 2 answers · asked by liz 1

it will help every one to ask the things in a way to get best and maximum answer ?
your suggestion is also required how it should be asked

2006-07-18 01:56:59 · 27 answers · asked by sandy 2

what symptons would show, if a guy is truely in love. what would he do to really prove his love to a lady.

2006-07-18 01:53:18 · 12 answers · asked by ajays 1

I was in a serious relationship for 2 yrs. Its been about ten months since i got dumped =/ .. Anyways I've dated and been intimate with other girls, some more attractive than my ex.. but after a few weeks of being with another partner I get turned off or emotionally enclosed, and stop it before it gets serious.. I also have like a really big guard with new women i meet. I was never like this before my ex, has my past relationship messed me up somehow? Has anyone ever felt like this? How long will this last? what can i do to get over this?

2006-07-18 01:51:39 · 5 answers · asked by rice311 1

She's my high school friend!!!!

2006-07-18 01:49:58 · 12 answers · asked by lady_blou 2

2006-07-18 01:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by girlie_2hot4u 1

Hi,

People I don't know why but I just LOVE treating girls like the princesses they truly are, I don't care what other people think about me for this, my mom says I'm mad and that I'll never find a girl that will truly love me back do you think that is for real?

Just wanna say that there are real men out there that truly love you for well... just being you!! don't let the world get you down you are beyond special , warm cuddly kinda, beautiful, perfection and just female!!

God I sound crazy here, but gotta speak my heart!!

Take care,
Stay special,
And chin up!!

2006-07-18 01:48:43 · 25 answers · asked by East Bay Punk 4

After more than 2 years of loneliness I'm tired of being alone. I work very much, I don't have a lot of spare time but I want someone in my life. The girls I met all this time were not serious and love is simply avoiding me... don't know what to believe. I'm not ugly, I'm not stupid... I'm just unlucky? I'm expecting for that special girl and she doesn't appear in my life... sometimes I feel like giving up. Love is not fair; some have too many and don't know how to keep it and some don't have it... thanks for reading.

2006-07-18 01:48:28 · 5 answers · asked by europe 2

My gf's parents are just too overprotective (and orthodox by attitude) about her.
When I called her up, her dad picked the phone interrogated me exhaustively (and possibly scolded my gf after he hung up)
Now, she doesn't even respond to my e-mails (no more calls!)
Please tell me what I should do to setlle out matters.
I'd offer 20 pts. to the best answer which works (sorry, can give only 10!)
(Tell me if you need further details)

2006-07-18 01:46:49 · 24 answers · asked by saurabh_h_n 2

2006-07-18 01:46:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 01:46:33 · 11 answers · asked by ndso19 2

1. big bruising ones
2. teeth clacking ones
3. hungry ones
4. little wet ones in nice places
5. ones with lips pulled back over teeth like rubber fenders
6. black hole kisses where no teeth or tongue are detectable
7. ones where you lock dental braces
8. ones between footballers [esp. back at the hotel
9.epileptic ones where you swallow each others tongues
10. goodnight ones when your girlfriend crosses her legs
and breaks your jaw ?

2006-07-18 01:42:11 · 18 answers · asked by hidoug 3

2006-07-18 01:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda 2

2006-07-18 01:38:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have a lot of things goin on in my life and it seems like the "boy" area is the worst! I try to be independant and do my own thing but bam here comes a boy...It seems like every time i try and get away thats when they come..and worse I dont know wat to do when a guy comes back from summer vacation and i dont know how i feel anymore. I know i love him but i dont know if i want to be together. Im not ready and im tired of dealing with all these guys and not being able to stand up for myself!! any advice??

2006-07-18 01:37:16 · 3 answers · asked by K S 1

I like a girl alot, and wanna be in a serious relationship, but dont know if she feels the same.

2006-07-18 01:36:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

because that what my gran told or was that to keep a man because man can't live on sex alone

2006-07-18 01:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

would u make any negative preassumptions about a guy when u know that he plays video games? would u consider it as a flaw in his character? and i am not talking about playing games all the time, just as a hobby every once in a while.

2006-07-18 01:33:27 · 9 answers · asked by alzaeemgt 1

If there was a hot looking white guy but with a 4inch penis. a strong looking african american with a 9 inch penis. A slim asian with a 3 inch penis. A gym trainer with a huge body and 6 inch penis. Who would u choose to have sex with if u had a couple of dates with each one of them?

2006-07-18 01:33:08 · 7 answers · asked by adam j 1

I loves her very much, she loves me too.I am thinking my lover specially designed for me.So I like to stay life long with her.But we have to go long way in education/life,(min it will take 10 yrs) to get marry.Untill that, I wd like keep our love pure. But she has been some times asking to **** her. I can do it. But as I have been seeing in many cases,we too may loose relationship gradually in this long run,if this the case. But on otherhand sometimes I am feeling that,if She wd not fullfilled with her wishes,she may leave me.Eventhough I have been telling about my wish, some times she agrees,some times wants love,which includes all things. what the soln for this?

2006-07-18 01:32:30 · 2 answers · asked by krishna_leelay 1

I am dating a guy and I really like him... and from what he himself, and what others say he likes me just as much... how do I keep him now that I have him.... I don't know what keeps men around.

2006-07-18 01:31:56 · 12 answers · asked by Krystyn 2