2006-07-18 01:38:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him.
2006-07-18 01:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by CRT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok....why are you trying to get him to comfort YOU? Why aren't you leaving this loser?!?!?! Sorry to be blunt, but come on! If this man is cheating on you, and has done it twice, that means that there is either something wrong with the relationship (and you BOTH need to work on it), or he can't keep his member in his pants and needs to seek professional help about that! It is clear that your self esteem is very low, and you feel that you cannot live without this man in your life. But please, try to understand that he is NOT your entire world and that you really can survive on your own without him. I am not saying that you should leave him, but he certainly should not be comforting YOU if HE is the one that cheated. He should be grovelling if nothing else and begging for your forgiveness. Honestly, you should address the issues in the relationship, allow both him and yourself to be open and honest with one another completely, and then decide what would be best for both of you in this situation. Leaving my husband was the best thing that I EVER did with my life...and he was cheating on me.
2006-07-18 01:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by swedchef13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him too? Getting comfort from someone who is dishonest isnt much comfort if you ask me. People dont change. How did he comfort you after he cheated the first time? But cheating on you again? Life is too short honey. Find someone else.
2006-07-18 01:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty2020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's to busy cheating on you to care what your feelings are! And if he's cheated on you twice now it will NOT get any better until you decide that you have had enough. Good luck :-)
2006-07-18 01:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you trust him again? If he has cheated twice he will always be a cheat. Move on with your life and forget him.
2006-07-18 01:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sad Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy you march up to him (if he is not nice bring a friend) and let the confronting begin.
once again my favorite saying seems to be approite.
"if he makes you cry he is not worth your tears and if he is he wont make you cry"
in this case if he cheats two times he is not worth your love for if he was worth your love he would never cheat.
so dump the cheater.
Cheers
Michael H Flack
2006-07-18 01:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by flackstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy cheated on me twice it would comfort me if he agreed to get castrated.
2006-07-18 01:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by annisenior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you suggesting girl/blokey that does not bode well for any relationship........he should be looking to you for comfort, certainly you should not be looking for comfort in his direction.........maybe he's just not in the same realm as you are....he's livin on planet cheat....did he lie or was he honest 'bout the affairs?
2006-07-18 01:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Chris J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy secretly cheated on you, its obvious that he is not going confront you about it and say, "Hey baby! I cheated on you" I am sure that he would prefer that you didn't know about it.
2006-07-18 01:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you sit around and wait for him? It is humiliating and not good to accept cheating. You better confront him yourself or not. If you dont - leave without saying what reason you have. Let him wonder.......
2006-07-18 01:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to confront you? TAKE CONTROL!!! You need to confront him and tell him what you know and dump him like yesterday's trash. This is NOT someone who cares for you or who will suddenly be faithful. You deserve so much better.
2006-07-18 01:42:11 · answer #11 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋